What would be the oldest guy you would think of having a relationship with. Your age and his age.
would that age change if you had a chance with someone that is rich or famous.
2006-08-02 10:05:41 · 26 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you all for the answers. I thought I was sick for having feelings for an 18 year old and ended the friendship because of my feelings.
2006-08-02 10:22:19 · update #1
Not over 45 and I am 22. But, I have been with men of all ages and their mentality is pretty much all the same. When I was 18 I dated a guy that was 35 and he was just like a big kid always lying about his other relationships. Then I found out he had a thing for young girls and I mean girls who are younger 17 and 18 so I let him go. Then I dated a guy that was 36 he was kind of thoughtful but he had major issues too. Now, my current love is 27 and we are more into the same kind of things. He pretty much like what I like and vice versa. After you have been in a few relationships with older guys you will see that it is not all you expected it to be atleast it wasn't for me because although he might be paying your bills and taking care of you he is still bound to cause you some kind of drama in the process. So, I say stick to someone closer to your age range it will work out a whole lot better I was say no more than 10 yrs. older than your age is the best range. I don't think it would change if he was rich and famous again there is more drama that is going to come with that and you really want to live a drama free life.
2006-08-02 10:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Revea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 18 I dated a guy who was 33, that lasted for 5 years. I would NEVER do that again, it messes with you when you're that age and you realize that they're closer in age to your parents than you. Plus old guys can't keep up, lol. I don't think that would change if they were rich and famous, I mean look at some of the older guys, I don't think they could pay me enough for a relationship with that since they came out with Viagra and the old ones are gonna expect to get some. GROSS!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-02 17:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by banshee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age thing gets less important as you get older, but 10-15 years is my maximum up...and 5-10 years younger....now that I'm in the over 40 crowd. I wouldn't have dated a 20 year old when I was 30...but a 30 year old at 40....not as significant.
The age thing doesn't change with rich and famous. It's not about money or WHO they are...it's who they are despite the money and fame.
2006-08-02 17:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a bit impressed by rich and famous. The oldest guy would be around 45 years old, I'm 51. By the way my husband is 39 years old and we love each other so much.
2006-08-02 17:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 27 and I would date a guy who is17 years older. Did that when i was 17. Money or fame does not really make a difference. it depends on ones morals and what one is looking for in a relationship. If those things are there or not there ,it does not affect how i feel about the person. I am with the person because I care about and love the person.
2006-08-02 17:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by joebaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a 19 (turning 20 Sept.) yr. female. i think the oldest I would ever date someone is around mid 20s. I dont think age should matter but at some point in time it does have to kick in afterwhile. For instance I had a friend who was 21 and dated a guy who was 45. To me, that was sick, but for her I guess it didnt matter. SO i think it just varies from person to person.
2006-08-02 17:11:43 · answer #6 · answered by snugglesbunni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 18 and the oldest guy i would date would be 25. that's 7 years differance but it could work. older than that no thanx. if he was rich it wouldn't matter. i prefere love over anything else when it comes to being with someone.
2006-08-02 17:09:42 · answer #7 · answered by vicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am older so I am going to be just like the men are and go for someone younger or my same age or only a little older because I want something that works-if you know what I mean!!! Men can keep their old MONEY!!!
2006-08-02 17:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 41...I prefer not to date anyone over 49 (just can't face that '50' mark yet) or under about 33 or 34...
No, money or fame wouldn't change anything...I've had the chance to date someone with money...nice guy but there was just no chemistry, so I walked away...I support myself, I don't need anyone else's money...and have NO interest in fame...
2006-08-02 17:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 18 and the oldest guy I would date would be 36, though it could change if I was in love, and no, fame and fortune would not change anything.
2006-08-02 17:09:52 · answer #10 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋