I have been speaking to a guy via msn for the past 3 years, we always got on really well. A couple of weeks ago we met up in Leeds, and I stayed at his for 2 nights. I now can't get him out of my head. I fancy the pants of him! lol what should I do?? Is there any chance of anything working or should I just give up???
2006-08-02 10:04:09 · 30 answers · asked by northukstudent 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What are the numbers about???
He's in Leeds, I'm just outside of Manchester. It took me an hour and a half to get there
2006-08-02 10:08:30 · update #1
I talk to him everyday! We still get on great, but he's more flirty now, and suggestive, should I take this as a sign that he wants more? Or is he just being a flirt??
2006-08-02 10:10:47 · update #2
Did you get any feeling that he likes you as much as you like him? Have you been in touch since? You could try dropping a few hints and testing the water. It is a really nice feeling to fall in love in this way. I did myself some years ago now. Although we split up in the end it was one of the most romantic and exciting relationships I ever had.
Go for it girl what have you got to lose? It all depends on how he feels ofcourse, but how will you know unless you ask? Just be subtle. If he reciprocates to your more subtle advances then you can up the tempo a bit! If not then what have you lost, at least you will get it out of your system. He doesn't live that far away so it could be good!
I hope that you work it out and have a fine romance! Let me know what happens (I must be going soft in my old age!) PS Up yours dw40 or whatever your name is, you sound jealous! Who the hell do you think your'e talking to woman?
2006-08-02 10:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mick H 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I met a girl in a chat room a few years ago and over the 3 1/2 years that followed she became the closest person to me in the world... I know this sounds stupid but hell we spoke nearly every night and we sent each other over 300 E-mails each... anyway after all that time I flew from England to Costa Rica to finally meet her. Being a school boy only working on weekends this was not easy... and hell it was worth it the moment I met this girl all these 3 years of chatting suddenly had a face and a voice and I know this sounds even more stupid but I fell in love!
You have no idea how much it means that I say that. Because I have to admit in the past I have been quite a player... I'm not proud but hey the past is the past, and I can't help having an very short attention span and relationships tend to bore me after a couple of weeks. So this girl in costa rica is really amazingly incredible and since I've met her I hate the idea of being with anyone else. So yes if your asking if it's possible to actually find love on MSN, yes it's possible. But it's hard. and painfull. I went to Costa Rica fell in love and now I won't see her for 2 years. It hurts like hell but I to see her again I have the patience.
Always other girls for... "inflight entertainment" =p
scratch that last remark =/ well good luck with this guy if you really like him. I guess you both have to make plans to see eachother again. Feel free to IM me if you like
2006-08-02 17:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how far away you are. If its not too long distance then give a relationship a go, the best thing about talking over msn is you can collect your thoughts rather then stumbling over your words in a phone conversation.
2006-08-02 17:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and see where things go...don't chase, but if you hear from him make it clear you'd like for that to continue...as for the chance of anything working, y'all will have to figure that out...if you are not living local to one another, at some point you'll have to determine who might be willing to move (if things did get more serious)...if neither of you are willing or able to do that, then no point in taking things any further than you already have...
2006-08-02 17:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i`d say tolk to him, see if he feels the same way, if he does! Fancy away, if he doesn`t back to MSN you go.
on a personel note : giveing ip is never an option, if you do you will think "what if" for the rest of your life!
2006-08-02 17:18:30 · answer #5 · answered by jcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful! How ppl seem or who they portray on the net is very often a fantasy and has no connection to who they really are.
I appreciate that you have a crush but just take it easy, flirt and take it easy. And try to get to know him one to one not on chatting on the net.
2006-08-02 17:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well so far so good...seems great dont it..
now see if you guys have the same values, morals and beliefs and if yes great, but if not then you know whether that is someone you can be with for longer than 2 nights ;-) catch my drift...good look..keep us all posted now
hope it helps x
2006-08-03 13:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've just spent two nights at his and now you ask if you should give up????
See if he feels the same and if he does - go girl go. Good luck to you and I hope it works out.
2006-08-02 17:12:49 · answer #8 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the time your having fun girl you go for it. if something comes from it brill but i not you'll keep doing it till you get board yea!!! go on you've nothing to lose and everything to gain..have fun thats what were all here for lol
2006-08-02 17:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, surely you should get the vibe that it's on or not. Have you seen or talked to him since? Let him know how you feel.
2006-08-02 17:09:15 · answer #10 · answered by BRITCOURT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋