I need to leave my bf because he is emotionally abusive, constantly belittling me and once last year he hit me. I know I should go. Should I leave now while he's at work or wait until he's home?
2006-08-02 10:01:57 · 10 answers · asked by real_sweetheart_76 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are scared of future violent behavior leave while he is at work. If you think he can handle it rationally it would be better to leave while he is home. The most important thing is to ensure your own safety. The most dangerous time in an abusive relationship is when you try to end it.
2006-08-02 10:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should leave while he's at work. Call him from your parents or wherever your at, and tell him that you've left him, it's over, and that's it. But you should call him, to let him know you're not hurt or anything. He can't be a good person, but you can be on that level. And after that phone call, it should be done forever.
2006-08-02 17:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by ------ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to avoid a fight, leave now. If you enjoy the drama....wait till he gets home.
2006-08-02 17:06:31 · answer #3 · answered by happyness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him without waiting and after sometime then give him contact, tell him what you doing.
2006-08-02 17:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE NOW!!!HURRY BEFORE HE COMES HOME
if he comes home he might not let u leave just leave him a letter!!
2006-08-02 17:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by *islandchick* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE NOW!!
BECUASE WHEN HE GETS HOME,
U GUYS WILL BE FIGHTING AND HELL PROBLEY HURT YOU
SO HURRY BEFORE HE GETS HOME!!
2006-08-02 17:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sooner is better than later
2006-08-02 17:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by nycangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have left a long time ago.
2006-08-02 17:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY TO HEAR THAT , LEAVE HIM WHEN HE IS AT WORK.
2006-08-02 17:12:54 · answer #9 · answered by russellmcmillen1947 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get all your stuff and leave NOWWWW!
2006-08-02 17:06:53 · answer #10 · answered by jmstgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋