i am a single mom and i have gone out with this guy a few time and had a great time but now i find out that he is the father of my 13 years old's bf
what do i do
keep seeing him or not
2006-08-02 10:00:59 · 29 answers · asked by armywife2316 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
The reason your daughter is an inconsiderate easy ho is because her mother has taught her that men are more important than family. Children learn what they live, and your daughter is slutting around just like her mother...great job!
2006-08-04 08:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
keep seeing him. Single fathers worth dating can be hard to come by.
more than likely your 13yr old is going to have other/more boysfriends as she gets older.
At this age, the kids might even think it's cool that you parents "get along".
if the relationship with the fathers starts to turn serious, i would sit and have a chat. A similar experience happened to me. when i was 18, i liked this guy in school. We were friends, and didn't date, but flirted and even kissed. Later down the road, my mom meets this guy and it turns out to be his dad. Well, they have been married for 15 years and now this person is my "brother". It was kind of awkward at first, but the situation turned out. we are really good friends now, and can look back and laugh at the whole thing.
2006-08-02 10:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by coloradosnoflake2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he a single dad? If he's married then stop seeing him now, that's so wrong. If not, I would keep seeing him, why not? But be respectful of your son/daughter and his/her friend. It may make the kids uncomfortable. If you and this guy get serious and think you may have a future then have a sit down talk with the kids and make sure it's okay with them.
2006-08-02 10:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by brainchild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep seeing him!!! you are the parent, you didn't know to begin with, and how many 13 year old relationships do you know that work out? honestly! If you are worried about them getting along as possible step brother/sister you'll have to cross that bridge when you come to it. I wouldn't worry about it though! If you're falling in love, nothing wrong with that. If you think it would amount nothing more than to a friendship, go with it!!! everyone needs friends!
2006-08-02 10:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Lucky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The likelihood of your children keeping their relationship close is very small for a 13 y/o. I'd keep it going with the guy.
2006-08-02 10:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by Nientech 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? You are an adult, and 13-yr-old relationships tend to be very short lived. Don't sacrifice your happiness because of this. Just keep seeing him if you like him.
2006-08-02 10:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how did you not that that it was your daughter bf dad?
That's just kinda funny. It could cause problems if your daughter breaks up with the boy or you decided not to date the dad anymore.
2006-08-02 10:08:16 · answer #7 · answered by luckymom43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends... but don't 'see' him as in start calling him your boyfriend. 13-year-olds are fickle. They will break up and you can go for the father. lol
2006-08-02 10:05:33 · answer #8 · answered by Sleeping Beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmmmmmm being that your child is 13 I'm guessing she will have many other boyfriends in her life.....
Keep seeing him, unless you're just looking for a reason NOT to.
2006-08-02 10:05:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but try to see if everything's cool with your daughter. But
either way keep seeing him.
2006-08-02 10:05:15 · answer #10 · answered by retrodragonfly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋