Resently, I have been having family problems and have tryed to make things better in anyway i could. When i am with them i am always depressed or angery because they are framing me for one thing or another. Usally things are my fault and i am the child who is always wrong. My siblings however tend to be the better of the family. I feel like i don't belong and i get that vibe from them that i shouldn't be there and i am not part of their family. I can't take living with them and i have been contumplating suicide because i am stuck here. I have two places that have said i can live with them which would make my life way better but i don't know how to tell my parents that can't stand them. What should i do to get out? and if i tell them what should i say?
2006-08-02 09:55:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hey hun!! i seriousely think you need to come back home and live w/ me!! cuz i know it will be ok...and it will be better for you neways!! you need to get out and let them figure out what their problems are and you get your priorities straight!! so hun come home we all miss you tons!!
love always
JDAWG!!
lol!! you know who!! ;)
P.S just fallow your heart and everything will be ok...
2006-08-02 10:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, do I know how you feel. I used to feel like that all of the time--I used to hide in my room and only come out for meals or to go out somewhere. Bet you thought you were the only one! Well, you me and about every other 16 year old on the planet, to some extent. Look, I understand that you feel bad, but running to stay with a girl friend and her family isn't going to fix what's wrong. It will only be running away. I realize that you think that your parents won't understand what you are going through. That's not really true--it's just that out here in the real grown-up world-we've found out that there are bigger problems. Not that I am minimizing how you feel. If it is so bad that you are contemplating suicide, I suggest that you tell an adult you trust and go see a therapist--it may be that you are really depressed--and there is medication for that. You don't HAVE to live this way, you just have to get help. So, before you run off, get your folks to take you to the family doctor--maybe under the guise of a school physical--be creative, here--and tell him how sad you are, and how you are thinking about killing yourself. You will get all kinds of action out of that! Good luck, and please do not give up! You CAN get help, and you CAN fell better. Don't run away from your problems. Learn to stay and fight and solve them--that will make you feel soooo much better. I promise!
2006-08-02 10:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by Waferette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a middle child?? Sounds like it. You only generalize on you situation. If you are being accused of something, did you actually do it?
Are you upset that your parents will not let you do what you want to do? Go where you want to go? Give you a curfew and you do not follow it?
It is not uncommon for a teenager to feel that their family hates them and don't understand. The feeling that you don't belong, normal. The struggle for independence is a difficult one for teenagers AND their parents.
At 16, you might feel and think that you are an adult, but you are not. If you move into one of the two places that will allow you to stay there, who will provide for you? I'm not talking food. I mean school costs, clothing, personal necessities, health care if you get hurt or sick, spending money, etc. Do you think your parents should provide you with that if you move out? Do you think the people you move in with will? Don't bet on it.Do you have a job? Are you going to get one?
Have you REALLY tried to talk to your parents on your feelings? I doubt it. Have you spoken to a school counselor? They can't read your mind.
If you get a job and can show that you can take care of yourself, you can legally get yourself emancipated. That way you would be responsible for yourself.
Just remember that the grass is not always greener on the other side.
Be careful what you wish for....you just might get it, and find out that it wasn't what you really wanted.
Talk to your folks or a school counselor....Really talk. AND...Listen... Good Luck.
2006-08-02 10:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by Shanan D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a lot of to offer this world so suicide shouldn't cross your mind. I know that it can be difficult when you feel that you don't belong. Sit down and have a conversation with them. let them know your feeling and that you are considering moving out. I promise 1 year from now you'll look back and see that you needed to go through this for a reason. Your strong and you'll be okay. If you ever need someone to talk to.
lovebnjenn@yahoo.com
take care
2006-08-02 10:10:30 · answer #4 · answered by lovebnjenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is not the answer things can always get better gradually move out and let them no u cant handle that right now and maybe in the future u can try again.move in with someone u trust or the places that said u could. the answer is jesus go to local church or something or just go in ur room and pray. what state r u in? if u wanna talk or need help email me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
grouch1992@yahoo.com
aim- jennagirl121
2006-08-02 10:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by Jenna H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is not the answer but u can hit the road
2006-08-02 10:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by aaaaaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u better stay home along as u can because it is not easy out here.
2006-08-02 13:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by dj6292002@YAHOO.COM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋