I'm talking to a lot of dudes right now...just trying to see my options. I've been single for a very long time now I do want to settle down but not for a little while. There's is only maybe one or two that acually have boyfriend potential...the others are just guys I hang out with...some who I even have sex with knowing that sex is all it is. I'm just tryna have all my fun and act a fool, party and act wild before I settle down in a realtionship cuz I don't wana have the urge to do that kinda stuff and mess up a nice thing. So anybody with any advice or just let me know if you personaly think what I'm doing is wrong or okay...thankx.
2006-08-02 09:50:43 · 14 answers · asked by lilmzpeach 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol...no no no I'm not having sex with all of them...there's acually only one that I did...but I'm considering another...I have done more with the other guys tho' like feeling on eachother and stuff...nothing more
and for the guy that said I'm a ho...please explain your self...guys talk to multiple women and have sex too and they are not called hos
2006-08-02 09:59:05 · update #1
jesse233377....ur question had nothing to do with this topic and all u can tell about me from answering that is I'm not a complete dumb *** like you....so go die or something cuz u suck at life.
2006-08-02 10:45:31 · update #2
Listen, as long as your being safe there is nothing wrong with what your doing. Beleive me, when your ready to settle down, you'll have gotten that out of your system, and you'll have a stronger relationship.
2006-08-02 09:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that does not make you a ho!!! It's best to shop around to find the RIGHT someone instead of settling for someone. I settled down w/ the wrong guy when I was 15, married him at 21, and divorced him at 29. Enjoy yourself, just be safe.
2006-08-02 16:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by drubaby32698 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I question about you is the way you play with sex. I'm not judge-ing you,it's just that you come off kind of (no big deal) about sex. I don't think your a whore,but do the guy's you date think your easy to get under the sheet's?You need to start narrowing down your bed-partners. Think twice before you jump.One day,you are going to find a Life Mate. It's time to save some of your energy.
2006-08-02 17:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhmm honestly, some guys want girls just to hit it with them. If you're sleeping with a lot of guys, not that I am saying you are because I don't know how many you have been with, it might build up a bad reputation among yourself and may be harder as a result, to find someone you want to settle down with. I remember talking to a guy once that tried to do it with me...and I said no..and a while back he asked me if I was still a virgin. I said yes. His response was good. I got curious and asked him why? and he told me hes trying to find someone to find a serious relationship with and too many girls are sleeping around and hes tired of having relationships with them...so keep that in mind..what you do is what people can label you as being that person.
2006-08-02 22:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by vietlitogrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are obviously a ho just by the way you answered my question about being ghetto. You probably take knees for the Chronic. Read a book, Oprah.
2006-08-02 17:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not a ho unless youre sleeping with all of them or even more than one of them. Although some may perceive you as to being a ho when seeing you with different men.
2006-08-02 16:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by real_sweetheart_76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i'm in the current situation. as long as ur not having sex with all the dudes ur talking to ur not a ho.
2006-08-02 16:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by cheer chic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your doing more than talking with multiple partners then it's probably not a good thing.
2006-08-02 16:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless your ******* all of them.
If you are not then no you are not a hoe.
if your ******* some of them better be careful, Love is a very unpredictable thing. it can bring the best and the worst out of people.
2006-08-02 16:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not till you start getting down wit them is it bein a hoe.
2006-08-02 16:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋