My girlfiend and I went to a pawn shop the other day to look at CD's. When we got there, instead of going over to the CD's, she went right to the case with the wedding bands. We've been going out for 7 months and we don't have any plans to get married. We have joked around about it a few times but all in fun. She even says that I'm a lot more involved than her in our relationship. She even told me her ring size after we left the store. Does this mean anything or am I reading this all wrong?
2006-08-02 09:42:16 · 14 answers · asked by yamaha bassman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That was a hint. Sometimes people joke around about things in hoping that they would hear just what they were hoping for and they keep joking about it from time to time hoping the other person would get the message and become serious about it. From the fact she told you her ring size, she is hoping that you are heading in that direction (direction of marriage). Seven months is not a long time. If you care to listen and I am just sharing from my experience, before you head in the direction of marriage, make sure you know her background and also about her bad habits because a lot of people get into a marriage and later say, "oh, I did not know she/he was like that." then they want to get out. Once you get to know her bad habits, make sure you ask yourself if you can live with them for the rest of your life. Remember, a marriage is easy to get into, but difficult to get out of.
2006-08-02 09:55:23 · answer #1 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Seven months seems a bit soon to get married, but that is how women sometimes behave when they're hinting around. That's a good sign, I suppose. I'd wait at least 5 more months, probably a year longer, before marrying her. You still have a lot to learn about her before you take that leap. These days you must be very careful who you marry, or it could pretty much ruin your life. Good luck!
2006-08-02 09:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go for now...but if other wedding-related topics come up any time soon, you might want to sit down and have a talk with her...y'all need to be on the same page in that area. I wouldn't panic just yet though...
2006-08-02 09:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run for it! Just kidding. I'd have to agree: sounds like a hint. Since you guys are such great communicators, why don't you just ask her "What's up with the ring size? You pushing for marriage of something?"
2006-08-02 09:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by nuclear_science 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was playing, either way after 7 months you shouldnt get married so just ignore it.
2006-08-02 09:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we as girls have this built in part of us that goes into auto pilot around any kind of jewlery.... and wedding rings big time !! it may or may not mean anything.... have a serious discussion with the girl..... watch her eyes and body language, and you will know what is in her heart.... but what is in yours ? are you ready for that commitment ?? if not, you also need to talk to her about that..... talk........ talk........ talk.......... God bless
2006-08-02 09:48:45 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it looks to me like u have a serious problem cause if she told u her ring size (which u should already know) then maybe she's takin it tooooooo far so maybe u should talk to her about that!
2006-08-02 09:50:54 · answer #7 · answered by lauren d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to get married RUN now!!!
Oh, and next time, don't joke. It's not a laughing matter.
2006-08-02 09:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by daddyssoccermom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is trying to strongly HINT that she may want a ring and a commitment.
2006-08-02 09:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
judging from your other questions, it doesn't matter whether she's joking or not
you two cant get married, at least not for a very long time
2006-08-02 09:54:28 · answer #10 · answered by TN girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋