If someone thinks about another person too much or has premature thoughts about them......
can that lead to doubt or just feeling down.? Thats kinda me right now. I've been thinking about a guy as a potential mate and it's probably too soon to be that serious even though i really think it's quite possible that we might be togther.If i think about this too much and talk about it too much would that lead to doubt or a feeling of anxiousness
2006-08-02 09:37:50 · 20 answers · asked by mountaingirl88 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh itll be alright
2006-08-02 09:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinking too much about anything can leave you feeling doubtful or anxious. My advice: do something to take your mind off of it, or if you really want to talk about it and that will make you feel better vent to a parent or a friend... worrying about a situation too much almost never ends up in figuring out a sound solution. Give it a rest for awhile and after you've stopped obsessing you will be able to think more clearly without feelings of doubt or anxiousness.
2006-08-02 16:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by tustudent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it could...your constant dwelling on the idea, without anything materializing (presently) in real life, can cause you to feel like it might never happen (even if you know such thoughts are premature)...we can think ourselves into and out of a lot of things...at times like that, you can be your own worst enemy...
Try to stop those thoughts...focus on the present, not a potential future...why set yourself up for disappointment needlessly? Enjoy what you have now...have no expectations...you'll feel better in the long run, even if things don't work out as you hope...
2006-08-02 16:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the long run it will
especially if he doesnt feel the same way about you
it will lead to doubts and regrets and u wont be anxious wen u r around him
2006-08-02 16:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by Kappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to think about it. But let your head rule your tongue. Many a relationship was ruined because people talked about moving too fast. Its ok to think it, but scary to to talk about it. Every date and every encounter is a potential relationship to me. 99% dont end that way, but I give them all the chance.
2006-08-02 16:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
situations in your head are always better then real life. Live in reality not fantasy. Start dating him and just let things happen. Thinking about it too much will drive you insane. Good Luck.
2006-08-02 16:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're putting too much thought into it, you'll end up stressed out. Just go with the flow.
2006-08-02 16:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by interpreters_are_hot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop thinking about it and act on it. Let him know how you feel. The worst that could happen is that he dosent feel the same way so then you wont have to torture yourself wondering all day long.
2006-08-02 16:42:54 · answer #8 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea ur kinda anxious but u sound like ur justcrazy about him which isnt abad thing but forstuff o get more serious itd help if he is just as crazy about u and if he is then good for u
2006-08-02 16:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by climberchk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell me....... how do you feel right now ?? and yes , always thinking about a subject can lead to depression and feelings of anxiety..... so just go out with him, ask him if you have to, and then go from there......... God bless
2006-08-02 16:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, let things happen on their own. If you push things, the relationship (if there happens to be one) will be a stressfull one.
2006-08-02 16:43:14 · answer #11 · answered by tygrwoodz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋