My head is telling me to leave him alone. But my heart is telling me otherwise. I can't stop thinking about him. We've been intimate on several occassions. It was supposed to be a "no strings attached" deal but somewhere along the lines I fell in love.
2006-08-02 09:28:46 · 24 answers · asked by gemone523 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Run as fast as you can in the opposite direction. He's a dirtbag.
2006-08-02 09:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by -- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away. you know that he is married, he is off limits, stop the calls the talking the secrets, and stay away from him. It isnt too late to grow a concience. You know what you are doing is wrong and illegal, yes adultury is illegal. Just be glad your not the star of the Scarlet Letter! If he feels for you and his commitment is to you and not his wife then you can be with him only after he is divorced. Marriage is sacred, and you should think about how you would feel if you were in his wifes shoes, and he is going off to someone else. You know what the right thing to do is. Move on with your life, focus on your career, whatever, stay away from him. Sex is sex simply that, and it is very easy to get sex confused with love. So wise up, and lisin to your head. It isnt right, and you already know that.
2006-08-02 16:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by srilanka_everquest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First it might be good to grow up a little and look at all the ways this can hurt. Sounds like you have love confused with, I really only want what I can't have. Sounds just
like a child who wants to throw a temper tantrum when told no you can't touch that.
If you were really ready for love, you would have made sure the man was freely available to love you back.
I am not married but I have more self respect than to date a married man. I deserve someone to really love me one day. Not to mention I would feel horrible hurting another woman and affecting children for the rest of their lives because of my selfishness.
2006-08-02 16:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by daddyssoccermom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl
leave him be. u DONT want 2 be the other woman. let me put it this way; u wouldnt want your man 2 cheat on u wit another woman. i mean thatz not right so dont be intimate any more cuz u dont want his wife 2 find out if when she does she is probably gonna want 2 beat the mess out of u and him so i suggest u leave him alone
2006-08-02 16:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by lil' nicquie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always been in favor of head; my female friends and acquaintences have said otherwise. But if he's married, just leave him alone; he's not worth it.
2006-08-02 16:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are buying yourself a heap of trouble
if he also loves you and is prepared to leave his wife which sounds unlikely you have a small chance of salvaging your heart
if not take it on the chin tell him thats it no more - and move on pronto - your heart will only get more hirt the longer you leave it
the lesson is simple - unless they are separated or divorced leave them alone
2006-08-02 16:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, hes got you right where he wants you...BOOTY CALL!
cheaters never change. Even if he left his wife (I bet he says either they are separated, never communicate OR she doesnt understand him like you do...does he?), left his wife for YOU, well think about it...hmmmm...he cheated on her, he'll cheat on you...if he hasnt already.
DUMP HIS SORRY MARRIED ACE. Don't tell his wife, though, she already knows. Trust me.
And change your tel #. And maybe borrow someone else's car for a while. Really. It'll help make the break cleaner.
2006-08-02 16:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget that chump! You both should have known better than that. If he isn't happy with his wife, he should have divorced her before getting involved with you. What if you get in a long-term relationship with him and he does this sort of thing again with someone else? How would you feel?
2006-08-02 16:37:51 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass is ALWAYS greener on the other side! Sounds like you have what it might take to attract someone who is not married and still fall in love.
Stay on your side... I'm telling you..it looks pretty darn green from here!
Hang in there!
2006-08-04 09:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no man, he's married. Cheating is one of the worst things, don't be a part of it. Let him go- you'll find someone that wants to be attached. Look, no married men.
2006-08-02 16:36:47 · answer #10 · answered by ex-junkie in blinding love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋