There's a bad female you like a lot. You e-mail her but you don't want to be to clingy or desperate. Yet at the same time she hasn't called you or e-mailed you back. You want this girl to be yours bad, but you don't want to get on her nerves with e-mails or calls everyday. She never really answers your e-mails either. You don't want to give up on her, how would you turn the tables to get her to e-mail you and "sweating" you instead? I don't like to chase the cat. I hate those games.
2006-08-02 09:27:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she's not getting back to you and you keep on trying to figure out how to "turn the tables" on her, YOU are the one making the game last. If she don't want you, get over it. Plenty of women out there.
2006-08-02 09:31:34 · answer #1 · answered by effin drunk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why guys only? Don't you think a girl would know how to answer this better? First of all, give it some time. If you still don't get any returned phone calls or e-mails, start e-mailing her when it is a group e-mail. Like when you foward a funny joke or picture or something to all of your friends, include her in also. Then you are not singling her out and looking desperate. Maybe she will respond to some of them. If you have already called and left a message that you know she has received, then I wouldn't bother calling. There is a reason she is not calling you back...Maybe she really likes you too and is just trying to get up the nerve to call you back. If not, try to get together with her in a group setting if possible. This would make her more comfortable. Good luck and remember confidence is key!
2006-08-02 09:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by Ruthie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain dude. You arent desperate just because you like a girl. Persistance is the key. But doing this without comming off as desperate is a trick. Act as if you have moved on and dont care anymore. She thinks she can have you at anytime. Make any conversation you have on a friend basis and show no sign of caring for her no more. Women want what they cant have. Acting elusive will make her wonder , "whats up with him now".
Remember this, an old man told me this one time. " A single, YES, wipes away a thousand NO's.".
2006-08-02 09:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be real. come right out and talk to her about it in person if possible
2006-08-02 09:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by paulbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, to bust in on this one, but......guys really don't know how to read girls too well, so you are asking the wrong source!
2006-08-02 09:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by SCALISI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she has friends talk to them, make her jealous, or just ignore her, she likes the attention you give her. if you stop then shell wonder whats going on
2006-08-02 09:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop for a while, get a hooker and be seen in a place were she hangs out at.
2006-08-02 09:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by Daxzakk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya that kinda suks, I would stop emailing her for a while and see of she notices it then
2006-08-02 09:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by airowens25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out and get it over with
2006-08-02 09:33:31 · answer #9 · answered by firefightingexpert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her. She doesn't sound like she's worth it.
2006-08-02 09:32:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋