im a teen and im having family problems....Well my dad is cheating on my mom...they fight alot...they other lady has 2 kids and he spends time with them and not me or my fam.....the lady really young and my dads not....so she is just taking his money...im the smallest in my fam... i cant take this any more help me!!!
2006-08-02 09:18:13 · 4 answers · asked by Totovan T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
PLEASE!!!HELP!!!
2006-08-02 09:20:51 · update #1
Can you talk to oyur Dad about this- not to blame him or yell at him, but to tell him what you need from him?
If that feels too scarey for you to do, maybe you can ask for a meeting with your Dad with a professional counselor there to help. Another idea would be to ask a rabbi, priest or minister, if you have one you trust.
best wishes to you! You deserve a Dad who is involved in YOUR life.
from a grandma-aged person
2006-08-02 09:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by PeggyS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your mom and tell her, and say it would be better for the whole family if they got a divorce then all the fighting would stop.
tell your mom that you need to talk to a professional about your feelings towards your dad. and that she cant help you.
and its best if you and your other siblings and your mom went and saw a counselor. then to talk about what is happening how to work it out. a third person can see the big picture and help.
2006-08-02 16:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to Peggy S. she has a great answer for you.
2006-08-02 16:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by katisadiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell ur dad how u feel. if he dose not respond then ignor him
2006-08-02 16:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by i lov u!>!>! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋