I have been with so many guys and they say they love me. And of course I belive them.
Then its like every one of them either falls out of love or falls in love with some one else. Please help
2006-08-02 09:01:24 · 10 answers · asked by BBG4blondeBabyGirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wish I knew what to tell you, but I have the same problem. Let me know when you find out, because I have pretty much given up on it. I have never understood why people say "It better to love and lost then to never love at all." It sounds like a load of bunk to me.
2006-08-03 06:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by Selkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be careful who you fall in love with. Love is a decision that you make. Get to know the person very very very well before you give your heart to them. men and people in general are going to fail you because thats part of life. but you have the control over your own heart and your own feelings. Don't just fall in love so fast, guard your heart the most that you can. Because if you don't then you begin to not believe in love, and love is something that is soo awesome when you share it with someone that feels that same way. Don't worry you'll find that man that is going to love you the same way you love him. Don't rush into anything and next time take things a lot slower.
2006-08-02 09:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by laural8477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend and she has been hurt twice, she's in her late 20's and has completely given up on ever being with someone else. I found this out on a day trip her and I took. I was talking about the break up with a man I had to grown to love more deeply and intimately than anyone ever before. (Trust me I'm not new to the game, have loved and lost many times.)
When I told her the story. She said I would be smart to do what she does and never let anyone in my heart again. I told her if anything my guys relationship and mine, has encouraged me to find love again. She looked at me like I was an alien.
I told her I shared and experience something I have never before. I loved the feeling and someday I hope to find it again. Yes it hurts to lose someone you love. Give yourself time to heal. With all the people on this planet. There is more than one somebody out there for you.
2006-08-02 09:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by Balou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indeed.
Most guys, self included, say the three words that they need to say to get in a girl's pants. Not being a jerk. Its the way it is.
I think its some sort of clinical fact that guys "fall in love" easier and fall out easy as well.
Don't love them because they told you they do, do it because you truly like this person.
I guess you'll know when he sticks around. He has to want to stay.
2006-08-02 09:10:13 · answer #4 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
convinced, and so can ladies. Its only it would not take position regularly. At 11 I went out with a guy and we were out for 3 till now we broke up :-( - I nonetheless imagine about him from time to time now yet I surely have moved on. convinced I admit that for the first 365 days we were youthful and doubtless did not incredibly love one yet another... actually we hardly ever talked. yet through the years we incredibly bonded or maybe as he left to bypass to new Zealand we were both incredibly disenchanted. We misplaced contact through the years and that i nonetheless do not comprehend I it changed into incredibly love or if we were only perfect acquaintances. I do imagine it truly is attainable for 13 365 days olds yo be in love... only many times peer pressure receives the better positive of human beings and there is a lot happening in peoples lives that they ignore what love incredibly is...
2016-11-27 21:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it's an emotion we all gotta experience no matter how much it hearts we may be afraid to love but if we did that our whole life it would be like a wall we build to everybody who trys to get in what i say is we meet all the wrong people so that when we meet the right we'll know in time you'll find a guy who will love you forreal
2006-08-02 09:10:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain sweetheart. Guys too go through the same situations. But the day I give up on love is the day life isnt worth much anymore.
2006-08-02 09:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time honey! DOn't give up and despair. I too thought I would never find the right guy, but when I least expected it, I met him and we got married 2 years later! I am now a mommy to a son and have been married for 4 years!
2006-08-02 09:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by Nick's Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It better to love and lost then to never love at all.
2006-08-02 09:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because one day you will find that special true love
2006-08-02 09:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by firefightingexpert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋