I'm in a relationship with someone that I have been dating or intertwined with for close to two years. But at the same time I have been thinking about someone that i barely know. I don't want to end the relationship but i do want to see what this new person has to offer me. Is this fair of me is it even normal. Please help me.
2006-08-02 08:58:25 · 10 answers · asked by MIA 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want to be with someone that will give me 100% not give his ex-wife 65% his children 25% and i'm left with nothing.
2006-08-02 09:07:30 · update #1
Of course it's normal, you feel unsure about what you feel for this guy you've been dating for 2 years and you want to find out about your feelings for this ohter guy. Everything is fine as long as you don't cheat on your boyfriend, if you want to be with the other one, you need to break up first or at least tell him that you want to take a break from the relationship. It's only fair.
2006-08-02 09:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by interpreters_are_hot 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself WHY you are having thoughts about this other person. Sometimes our hormones take over, and it is natural to have thoughts about someone else. The real question is WHY...
If you find that there are things that bother you about the current relationship, you need to give this person time to try and make things right again. If you think your problems are bigger than you can handle, then be honest to this two-year relationship and break it off. Explore new possibilities.
However, if you think that you can work on things, then give it an honest shot - two years is a great deal of time to devote to one person, I would hate to see you let that go simply because you have the hots for someone else.
2006-08-02 16:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by Kerr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sweety,
I hate to say this, Its not fair to the man your with at the time.
Your mind should be all on him if its not then you need to go your own way and find out about this other man that keeps catching your eye. If nothing is meant of this then you could possible make it work again with your 1st fellow but be honest with him.
Tell him he has the right to know.
If not there will always be a what if in your relationship.
Sorry but it will, this i know went thru it myself.
Stay true to yourself.
2006-08-02 16:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by Quelynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weigh out the good and bads about your boyfriend. If the bads are dominate, then get to know the other guy. Or stay with your boyfriend and get to know this new guy by starting off as friends...they say good relationships started from a friendship
2006-08-02 16:04:15 · answer #4 · answered by jso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just tell your current "dating", i dont understand your situacion that well, but letsjust stick with dating; that you want to see what this new guy is al about and that u just wanna go out with him for a while to see if he fits your needs better, and if not you can always just walk back to the first guy.
2006-08-02 16:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by waffleman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't fair of you! You can't have your cake and eat it too. If you are serious about this person, then be serious about this person. From the sounds of it you may be a bit of a gold digger!
2006-08-02 16:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by str8tequila80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very normal. if you don't want to be in the relationship you are in now then end it before it gets to serious. if you want to presue another relationship then you better do it or you might regret it later on in life
2006-08-02 16:04:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to see about his other person, leave the one you are with first.
2006-08-02 16:04:29 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it try the other guy out it's obvious he does something that tickles your heart and he will probably take you places you only dream of.
2006-08-02 16:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by PAULo2020 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without question, the grass is ALWAYS greener.
2006-08-02 16:03:30 · answer #10 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋