i love my boyfriend but i get real shy around him and i wont open up to him i mean i talk to him but it isnt like how i talk to my firends or family im so closed up and kinda tensed when i talk to and im kinda scared to tell him my real feelings because im scared of him reaction or getting hurt what do i do??
2006-08-02 08:57:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-02 09:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of the things in common between both of you and start talking about them , that should break the ice. Secondly in your mind try to think of him as a friend at least in the begining , that should make you feel more secure.
2006-08-02 16:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by SMARTY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your shy by nature it will diminish in time once you get to know your boyfriend better.I'm a shy person too but once I'm comfortable around someone you can't get me to shut up.
2006-08-02 16:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by Celebrity girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH, YOU HAVE TO GET OVER THAT, BUT THEN AGAIN,I WOULDN'T RUSH INTO ANYTHING, LIKE THE L WORD...BEST ADVICE: SAY OLIVE JUICE WHEN IN AN INTIMATE MOMENT. SOUNDS ALOT LIKE I LOVE YOU. LOL, THAT'S THE PUNK WAY TO GET OUT OF IT. IF HE GETS AWKWARD WHEN YOU SAY IT, SAY,"NO I WAS JUST THINKING THAT I NEED OLIVE JUICE AT THE STORE", IF NOT, GOOD 4 U, AND AS FAR AS BEING UNCOMFORTABLE WITH HIM, THAT'S BUTTERFLIES, YOU'LL GET OVER IT
2006-08-02 16:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by CYNTHIA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wish for you both to have a good relationship, trust in your feelings for him and communicate. if you keep this up, he will thinkthere is no communication in the relationship and look elsewhere. Take care and good luck...
2006-08-02 16:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking of him as just the boyfriend that you love. start thinking of him as a really good friend (like you think of your best friend). if you do that it'll make it easier to talk to him bout important stuff. I wish you luck.
2006-08-02 16:03:46 · answer #6 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend more time with him and just chill and be your self open up with a conversation and talk to his family that will make them think you not stuck up are think youre to good be down to earth and talk more hug more give cards and call more.
2006-08-02 16:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I FELT THE SAME WAY WITH MY BOYFRIEND BUT DONT BE AFRAID TO BE REAL WITH HIM TELL HIM HOW U FEEL. IF HE REACTS TO IN A WAY THAT SEEMS HURTFUL THEN STOP BUT TRY AND SEE. U NEVER KNOW WHAT HAPPENS IN THE FUTURE IF U DONT TRY IT.
2006-08-02 16:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by tmacbaby80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say get drunk and spill it. If you don't someday it will all ball up on you and you will explode. This is not good for anyone. Trust me I have done it.
2006-08-02 16:04:25 · answer #9 · answered by Right_Stuff66 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
be yourself!! if he doesnt like the real you then hes not good enough for you. Im sure he likes you for who you really are.
2006-08-02 16:03:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋