WELL MY BF IS OLDER THAN ME AND HE IS 18 HE SAYS IF WE HAVE SEX WE WILL BE HAPPY AND MORE COMFTERBLE AROUND EACH OTHER IS IT THE ONLY WAY TO GO Y CANT I JUST MAKE OUT MORE INSTEAD
2006-08-02 08:42:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, sex is not the only way to go. If he loves you and respects you, he will wait until your are ready. If he won't wait, then he isn't worth your time.
2006-08-02 08:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him - having sex with you could end him up in jail. It's not the only way to go - his hormones are just surging. It's a huge decision in a relationship and if your not ready, making this choice won't feel right.
Wait for it chick - there are those out there that think making out is the hottest thing ever. I am 23 and my man wants to make out all the time. sex is bonus points, making out is a nessecity. :-)
2006-08-02 15:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by hmmmmmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though he is only wanting sex from you and you should not give into him b/c if you do, things will change drastically between the 2 of you and not for the better. If you are not ready, do not have sex w/him b/c that is all that he wants.
2006-08-02 15:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i can tell your young. And No sex is not the only way. Just be your self and hav fun together. Dont let HIm Pressure you in to anything you dont wanna do. Sex can bring People closer together but when only one person wants to have sex it doesnt work.
2006-08-02 15:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationship is not all about sex. if he loves you he will wait until u r ready and he will not pressure you. do what you feel is right baby girl because u only live once and it only take one time to **** up a life time. Be Smart make good life long decisions.
2006-08-02 15:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl he lieing to you sex isnt the only way you both can feel closer to eachother jus try to get to know each other meantally before physically and hes older than you and has experienced more things than you but get to know each other first im 17 and i had the same situation that u are in
2006-08-02 15:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i dont think a relationship should be soley based on sex. If you are not ready to have sex with him then dont. You will regret it!!! sex only makes things more complicated and if he cant understand that you are not ready to have sex then he really doesnt care about you.
2006-08-02 15:46:12 · answer #7 · answered by jenks1545 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it deinatly isnt he just wants to do it with u and is telling you that to try and taalk u into doing it with him hes trying to be minipulivtive it definatly isnt the only way to go talking and hanging out is a way to feel more comfortable around eachother sex can also make things more akward
2006-08-02 15:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by climberchk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your BF is a total horn dog, and will say almost anything to get sex.
You're happier and more comfortable with just making out. Stick to the "making out" for now.
2006-08-02 15:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not listen to your boyfriend! Sex does not make things easier, it complicates things. Save sex for when you are an adult and if he can't wait then find a boyfriend that will.
2006-08-02 15:54:30 · answer #10 · answered by Brooke 32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋