why dose my dad hate me?

Question

why dose my dad hate me so much every dad he makes fun of me he steals my stuff from my room and sells it why is it he hates me so can some one tell me some thing I can do to stop the pain I feel

he is not on drug or any thing my mom she is so stressted so I can not bother her the only thing i do is just read books

Answer 1

Tell someone you can trust. In the meantime, every time he makes fun of you, jokingly tell him that he better not do things he'd regret when he's old and sick and needs his kid to take care of him in the future!

Answer 2

Please do not internalize your dad's behavior..as many people will tell you, it's him - not you. Tell someone you trust what is going on, a guidance counselor, a pastor, or a close family member or friend so you can get the help you need. I know it is hard right now but don't allow the first 18 years of your life to impact the rest of it...any person or situation can be turned around. You do not have to be a by-product of the trash that you call dad. Be the best you can be - through the storm and the sun will shine again....Keep ya head up!!

Answer 3

I'd ask him why he steals and sells your stuff. But be polite and calm about, don't get anger or emotional in front of him. If he refuses to answer, tell your mom, and/or a teacher that you like and trust.

Just try to hold on.

Any other reason why he would sell your things? Have you been rebellious recently? And you don't nessecarily need to tell you mom, but tell a well-known, well-loved, and well-trusted family member, or a teacher you like and trust. And when did this start happening? Has it been going on for a while, or does he stop for a few months and start back up again?

As for teasing, my whole family teases me, as I tease them. Personally, I tease to show affection, but I always let them know I'm just joking. Is what he does hurting your feelings? And can you tell if he's joking or not? Just try to get more info, and like I said, ask him calmly why he does that.

Answer 4

0. Does my dad hate me? 1. Call the cops, not one deserves to be hit, expecially by their parents that is call abuse. 2. Yes he loves you. A fathers love is unconditional. 3. He does not hate you, because the definition of hate means that you want to see that person dead and that you will do everything in your power to see them dead. 4. Do not listen to your boyfriend. And he was a true boyfriend he would have already called the cops. 5. Your mom and brother seems a little dumb too, because I would never ever EVER let my dad hit my step brothers and get away with it. And my step brothers are not my favorite people either, but I know right from wrong. Do the right thing and turn him in.

Answer 5

First off don't listen to everybody. The ones who say that your dad prob doesn't hate you but has a problem are most likely right. If you don't get an answer that helps, leave me a message on my page and we can talk about it.
It might help for you to think of the things that you do have and the people that do show you love. I can promise you that it is not you to blame.

Answer 6

We can't tell you based on what you've given here. Is he on drugs? Most fathers who steal things from their daughter's room to sell are looking for money to buy drugs or various other black-market items with. He may not hate you, he may just have a serious problem that he needs help dealing with. Have you tried to sit down and talk to him rationally about it? I would suggest that, because we do not have telepathy.

Answer 7

Thats messed up he shouldnt steal your stuff and SELL IT!!! As for the teasing my dad teases me all the time not like really mean but he always tells me that he just does cause he loves me... im not so sure but what ever. Anyway u should tell your mom or someone and if he gets like abusive u really really need to tell someone even if its just verbal abuse. And its not your fault if he does hate u NEVER blame your self.

Answer 8

I don't think your dad hates you; he just might have some kind of a problem. You should probabily help him in anyway you can and if he does'nt stop just ignore him but try not to directly disrespect him because that would make it worse.
If he dose anything offensive to you that you cannot tolerate try to get away form him or call the police.

Answer 9

I'm sorry to hear that your dad treats you that way and that you have to deal with that everyday. It sounds like your dad might have some kind of problem and you should probably tell someone that can help you get away from him or get him some help. I hope things get better for you.

Answer 10

ok did u ever do sumthin to disrespect or hurt his feelings? still even if u did a father should always b der for his son/daughter no matter wat they done. im not sayin this is d case but sumone in my family had a drug problem and he used to take ppl stuff dan sell it to buy drugs. could it b possible he has a similar prob? i cant say exactly y he acts like dis but u can talk to ur mom and if she dont beleive u or dont support u dan take it to d cops. he is stealin from u and they the right ppl to take it too.

take care of urself