Women When do you plan to rather the heart to talk to a man on first contact, especially if you think he's cute and you like him.
Now I know I'm going to get the WE HATE REJECTION THING...well YOU WOMEN SURE LIKE REJECTING MEN.
Thats funny, what ever happened to
DO UNTO OTHER AS YOU HAVE THEM DO UNTO YOU??????
2006-08-02 08:40:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FIRST OFF kja63...I'M JUST ASKING A QUESTION, I'M IN A RELATIONSHIP.
CAN I ASK A GENERAL ???
2006-08-02 08:46:38 · update #1
WOW MAN, I CAN'T ASK A QUESTION ON HERE WITHOUT PEOPLE AUTOMATICLY THINKING THIS IS MY PERSONAL FEELINGS.
2006-08-02 08:57:26 · update #2
Women love equality as long as they don't lose any ground. Sooo... go figure.
2006-08-02 08:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by Paul 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A woman will not automatically put on the reject if you are smart enough to know not to "play" with her and expect a reject. You get what you put out there. Men should learn to listen and talk to a woman about herself WITHOUT involving sex in the conversation and you might get somewhere. Check yourself first: clean fingernails? Clean clothes and hygeine, good teeth, nice clean hair? Shiney shoes? Women look at those things in a guy. Now you don't have any excuse about "being rejected". I'm just telling you like it is, honey.
2006-08-02 08:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never stopped me, actually I wish guys knew it was a clue, if I wanted to talk to them I'd let them know one way or another. It seems to me that perhaps you aren't looking for the signs. Here are the main reasons I have seen for guys getting rejected over the years:
Guys get rejected because they approach girls that are for one wayyyyyy out of their league, I can't tell you how many times I've seen geeky, unattractive, unappealing guys with nothing to offer anyone approach the most gorgeous girl in the place, come on thats ridiculous, why don't they consider things like that? There is probably a geeky, unattractive, unappealing girl sitting in a corner somewhere that would be thrilled to have his attention, but he doesn't look at her and say yep we are about even so I'll go for that one, no he approaches the most gorgeous girl that could have any guy on the planet. So they often set themselves up for rejection.
They don't look for things like wedding rings, I have had a lot of guy friends who would say hey what about her, i would say her husband probably wouldn't like it, they were clueless, I've actually given friends 'noticing wedding ring lessons'. Or they do notice and ask anyway, leading to rejection and perhaps a pummeling in the parking lot. Again their fault.
Third major contributor is that they just don't pay attention to the signs IF a girl is interested in you she will let you know. It may be suttle, but she'll smile, she'll make eye contact across the room, she'll brush by you when she passes you, there WILL be signs, if there aren't signs she isn't interested so if you ask her anyway again you are setting yourself up for rejection.
Fourth their approach is usually lame as hec. It goes something like (and I have heard these actual words more times than I can count) 'You are pretty, you should go out with me'. WHAT???? Don't approach a girl based on what SHE has to offer you or what you want to TAKE from her, approach a girl in a way that highlights what YOU have to offer HER, give her reasons to choose to go out with you over the other 4 guys that have asked her out that week.
Hope it helps a little. If I want to talk to a guy I just talk to a guy, its never been an issue, any guy that I didn't approach was because I had zero interest in knowing him. Most of us feel this way, at least once you get out of the 8th grade. Good luck.
2006-08-02 08:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the difference between girls and woman ,find yourself some one who is nota little girl and all caddy,older wman know how to treat a guy and they will hav econversations for you for hours ,they are very stimulating ,you should go start talking to a more mature girl one who doesn't play games,you'll se how much better they are on all levels,girls can be very caddy and are only looking for bad boys that treat them like crap,and they don't like a guy that automativcally like them cause they like the cjhallenge,its sad but chicks will take a bad boy over a nice guy anyday ,anyway hope you sway away from immature females that love to play mind games.
2006-08-02 08:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by ocean currants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW did someone hurt poorly Little lonely depressed, sexually frustrated, angry, young boy?
Is O.K. you'll get some, but with that attitude not anytime soon.
2006-08-02 08:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shut the hell up, you don't know what the sh!t you're talking about. Go back to Mars.
2006-08-02 08:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by Cheshire Riddle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i like him I will make the first step I have no problem with that...why do you.
2006-08-02 08:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by conundrum_dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i start the conversations most of the time..its a scropio thing...and i Control thing too. i think
2006-08-02 08:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by Scorpiogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want someone to talk to you right now. oh oh I forgot I have to wash my car. I'll talk to you later.
2006-08-02 08:46:15 · answer #9 · answered by mauricejr77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I talk to whoever whenever so I have no idea what you're ranting about.
2006-08-02 08:44:46 · answer #10 · answered by PaganPoetess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋