I loved him and i dont know why. He told me he was attracted to other people and he was living a party house next year and things will happen. Is it me? Am i not attractive anymore. Im so depressed about this I dont want to go back to college now. All of my friends are friends with his friends what am i going to do?
2006-08-02 08:39:50 · 8 answers · asked by jenks1545 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had that same problem...drop his a**...he's the one with the problem. As for the friends...join a student organization or start talking to people in your classes if none of your old friends want to talk to you. You'd be amazed how quickly you can make friends that way. If you are in the class or the organization with all these new people...you already have a common interest! There's your conversation starter!
I had this same problem at the end of my freshman year of college. I ended up losing a good number of my friends, but the ones I went out and made after that were so much better than the old ones. They like me because of who I am and not who I date.
College is supposed to be a fun time. Good luck with your situation, honey, but rest assured that you are NOT the one with the problem.
2006-08-02 08:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by GeauxLSU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go back to college and use this as a learning experience. You have to grieve so you can move on, grow and actually learn something from this. Men are meant to 'sow their seed'. They can't help it. It is genetics- survival of the species....not to mention that he is also young. Most men, if given the opportunity, willl cheat. But remember, they marry the ones they love; it's just sex with the ones they don't love. Don't let a man ruin your career, your life and the chance to meet someone new.
2006-08-02 08:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by htowngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun you are going to go back to school because there are a thousands of guys out there waiting for you. you play the game as if you don't care it's gonna be hard but you play the game right back on him. he hurt you and one day karma will get him back and i just hope you are there to watch him get hurt. you go on with your life don't let a cheating a s s h o l e ruin any plans you have in life. you seem smart enough to make the right choice. just rememeber you are beautiful inside and out. someone anyone wouuld love to love but you can't be heart broken because then they will stay away. live life to the fullest and enjoy your college years before they are gone. just be thankful that he showed his true colors now before you maybe married him and lived in hell for ever. theres better, happier, and mature men out there.
live,love,laugh and get back at his a s s by not caring about what he is doing. best of luck. DON;T DROP OUT OF SCHOOL YOU NEED IT AND WANT IT!!
JUST ME
2006-08-02 08:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by lover143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, GO BACK TO SCHOOL, it's not you. You loved him he did not love you, Go see your Friends they can offer the comfort you need, then chuck it up to experience and don't let another person
make you feel bad about yourself. You will meet that great person you are looking for...just give it a little time, let me tell you his friends already know what kind of person he is, and your Friends Will be there for you. Oh!!!! get your butt up call the girls and go out....... take care of your beautiful self....
2006-08-02 08:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maturity
2006-08-02 08:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by Pey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
society has placed this fake idea that one man for one woman
is the only way to live, yet if nature had intended that then nature would've provided us with a penis that fit only one woman, or vice versa. we are human, and human nature gives us the right
to do what we like, not what others want.
2006-08-02 08:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys do not cheat. I'm just worried about my girlfriend.
2006-08-02 09:25:43 · answer #7 · answered by yamaha bassman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your to good for him. I know its hard, but move on, you are growing up, and he is still a kid.
2006-08-02 08:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋