During sex, if he is on top, I always put a pillow over my face. I don't want him to look at me I get embarrest. I don't want to be like that and every once in a while he will pull the pillow off of my face, but I just turn my head. How do I get past this?
2006-08-02 08:39:33 · 10 answers · asked by Brandy R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get more comfortable with your body. He obviously loves looking at it and you should too. Maybe there's something about sex that embarrasses you. Figure out what that is, accept it, and move on.
Or, it could be, that you just think he's ugly. :) But if he's not, then just realize you are a beautiful, sexy person.
2006-08-02 08:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by halo27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you man take you to a place where here is a mirrior on the ceiling. As you are having sex look at yourself on the mirrior. Get used to how you look during sex. I guarantee you your boyfriend is not worried about it ,because if you take the pilow off of your face, most of the time his eyes will be closed. When he removes the pillow, it's only because he wants to see your beautiful face during intercourse... Take care and good luck..
2006-08-02 15:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you drink at all? Try a couple of drinks before sex to loosen things up a bit. Realize that making love is the time you want to connect with your partner. The best thing you can do is show your love. He's not going to judge you if he loves you.
2006-08-02 16:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by yamaha bassman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find kissing helps. Also the longer your withthis guy the more open you will learn to be.
If your hiding all the time, you could be missing out big time! Hows he suppost to know what does it for you.
You've got to take a deep breath and let yourself go!
It turns a guy on if he knows he's doing the right thing!
2006-08-02 15:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? If you're that shy, maybe you shouldn't be doing this, it could lead to anxiety!!!
Just try and relax, and remember its just as embarassing for him and hes in control when hes on top so probably a little more embarassing...just breathe and think about how good it feels!!! Ur missing out!!!
2006-08-02 15:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wont even notice. Hell be in such a good mood he wont no. I bet the next time you do it youll be fine. Try it and get back to me
2006-08-02 15:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by gg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try kissing him...
it's ok to be embarrassed?
but not ashamed. you ought to know you're a good person, and that you're worth it. what ever it is. and that yes you can have sex with him with him on top and not be ashamed by it! it can even be fun.
tell him how you feel. it's his job to help you.
:D
2006-08-02 15:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kiss alot during the act
2006-08-02 15:42:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dark room-or drink alot-
also other ways where you dont have to look at him-but its ok
2006-08-02 15:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first question, are you new to having sex?
2006-08-02 15:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by diamondcut 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋