no too high of standards. i want in a man what all women want in a man. it just seems like all the good men are taken.
do i have to settle? or remain single?
2006-08-02 08:23:51 · 13 answers · asked by Jan 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nah !! don't settle, keep your standards, there are still a few good guys out there...just be patient it will pay off.
2006-08-02 08:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by Tom 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At your age, (whatever it is), there is always the option of settling or waiting until you hit about 40 or so. Men will always still be maturing, the question is at what point is a guy mature enough for your tastes.
Men are like wine, the more mature, the better. Having a refined taste in wine (or men) is something that few people have nowadays and it's something that must be cultivated. You are blessed to have such fine tastes; never forget that. If you really enjoy the taste of an expensive, 30-year merlot, then you should have one, but it will take much more time to find a 30-year merlot than it will to find a 7-year pinot noir.
The answer to your question is yes, but that's not what you really want to know...
I'll go one step further for you and put it into simple terms: Once you have an acquired taste, you can't ignore it. Finding something to meet your refined tastes in men will take time, but settling for a cheap wine will always leave you thinking, "This would taste sooo good if it were left in the cellar for another 10 years or so."
Hope I helped, slyguy_hzleyes@yahoo.com
2006-08-02 09:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the in easy words ability you need to be searching for is he what you want? Does he recognize you? If he wont then he isn't any longer worth it. Is he hardship-free? If he isn't any longer, how are you going to've a healthful relationship? Can he carry a communication? If something takes position to his well being and he isn't any longer waiting to finish and also you 2 do not have a reliable communication the relationship gained't very last? many women folk human beings have severe expectancies yet whats incorrect with that? we want to be at liberty. i want the same issues i'm able to offer to a relationship from the guy I date. i do not imagine it truly is incorrect. attempt a relationship web site, many ask you what your searching for..If the first one would not meet your criteria bypass to the subsequent attitude. reliable success J
2016-11-27 21:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by dysart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes, it's okay to have high standards. Never settle, especially if you are looking to live with them for the rest of your life.
2006-08-02 08:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by Nate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happiness is never settling. While at times it may hurt in the process, the long term results are worth every tear.
2006-08-02 08:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by design_dreamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The higher the average standards are of women, the better guys are going to be. Lets face it. We are going to do whatever it takes to get in your pants. Blunt, but true. If you expect more of us, we'll deliver.
Maybe you need to re-examine your definition of a 'good man', and start hanging out where they do.
2006-08-02 08:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't hane to settle, but sometimes it doesn't hurt to "bend "your standards a little, because i am sure you'll find that no one really lives up to all our standards. Take care and good luck....
2006-08-02 08:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you what every guy would want. its hard to find a guy w/ everything and dont settle what if the guy eventually starts to like you alot and you dont like him that much. its not good. make friends w/ some cute/nice guys and then just see what happends and find out who they are and if they are everything you want. good luck
2006-08-02 08:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER settle for less than you want. Mr. Right is out there for you somewhere. You may not find him as quickly as you want, but you will find him!
2006-08-02 08:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't settle...set your standards and stick to them, you deserve the best
2006-08-02 08:27:51 · answer #10 · answered by Miss E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋