I took all your advice, but he doesnt want to leave me, and forget me, he told me this:
Him: ur keepin ur kids names the same
Him: even if ur not with me?
Me: i love those names, you know that.
Him: yea
Me: I think their beautiful.
Him: thats disrespectful to me
Me: why?
Him: we made those names for each other
Him: not for sum other guy
Me: yeah, but you dont love me, and u dont see us together, so?
Me: those kids names dont mean anything to you.
Him: yes they do
Him: and no
Him: i dont want u to use them for sum other guy
Me: but u want them used with you?
Him: yea
Me: why did you tell me you liked steph and didnt love me
Him: i always loved you, and i dont like steph, i lied..im sry.
Me: U miss me dont you?
Him: ya
He knew all those things he said about me, wasnt true, he has problems tho..I just dont know why hes coming back...
I want him to know I want a christian man, and ifs not, then i cant be with him
What do I say?
2006-08-02 08:09:37 · 12 answers · asked by inthisskin22x 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Don't be stupid
2006-08-02 08:14:10 · answer #1 · answered by The Pooh-Stick Kid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to leave you alone and that you want no more contact with him. Make it very clear, and state it as simply as possible. Write down the time and date you have told him this.
If he contacts you again, write down the time and date immediately, on the same piece of paper. Keep it handy, maybe on a clip board. Hang up as soon as you know it is him. Do not engage in conversation. As soon as you get a dial tone, call the police. Ask them what kind of complaint you can file in this situation. You don't have to dial 911, just call the number and get the advice. Follow through with the advice. Write down on your record the name of the officer you reached and what his or her advice was.
If he contacts you again, you will probably be able to get some sort of restraining order. Remember, once you tell him "no contact" you can not backslide and engage with this man again in any kind of conversation that isn't government mandated. (Such as if youhave to share custody and need to discuss something to do with that.)
Good luck.
2006-08-02 15:19:42 · answer #2 · answered by jennifae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want a Christian man, then say good bye. If you already have kids and they're already named, then changing their names would traumatize them and wanting to do so is all about him being selfish. He can grow up and get over it.
2006-08-02 15:16:17 · answer #3 · answered by Banba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Behold the destructive nature of religion.
2006-08-02 15:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by ChooseRealityPLEASE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd consider a restraining order.
This guy sounds like he has mental problems.
2006-08-02 15:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, didn't you know earlier that you wanted a Christian guy?
2006-08-02 15:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by ☼ Ỉẩη ♫ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just think you need to tell him you can't be with him he seems like he will have honesty problems.
2006-08-02 15:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it...
But if he's upset over a name then you're going to face bigger problems.
2006-08-02 15:14:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
peace
2006-08-02 15:15:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "Goodbye!"
2006-08-02 15:15:27 · answer #10 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good by
2006-08-02 15:12:45 · answer #11 · answered by jyd9999 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋