As graphic as possible.
2006-08-02 07:57:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
:::Rae::: ouch
2006-08-02 08:08:51 · update #1
There were times when I felt like a sword was through my chest from heart to spine. Sometimes I started to cry without provocation. I had trouble sleeping. I plotted her death in at least a dozen different ways. (She's safe, don't worry.)
The most awful aspect of it all is that there was no one to talk to. I couldn't talk to her about how I felt about her cheating because she was no longer a trusted partner. I couldn't talk to my parents, parents, brothers, or friends because it was just too shaming.
The loneliness was so thick, heavy, and cloying that it felt like being buried under a pile of cold dirt.
Lastly, there's the finality of knowing that nothing will ever be the same again.
2006-08-02 08:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It feels like someone literally ripped your heart out. It is a physical and emotional pain that you feel in every fiber of your being and something that you never get over no matter how long ago it was or whether or not you are still with that person. Then that forlorn feeling turns into a bitter rage that can bring a man or woman to bring most dispicable pain towards someone else to make anyone in the world feel 1/2 the pain you felt.
No matter what you do to try to heal yourself, it's a pain that lives in you forever.
2006-08-02 15:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Chivalry says, "Graphic? OK. No personal experience, but as I have seen, being cheated on is like having open heart surgery without anesthesia. It's very devastating to know that the one whom you gave all of your love will betray you, or doesn't love you back as you believed."
Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
2006-08-02 15:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I begin to feel unattractive knowing I wasn't enough for the person I am/was with. It's a sh*tty feeling knowing someone can't be committed and honest. But now, if someone cheats on me, I get out of their life and move on knowing I am a good, strong, sexy lady.
2006-08-02 15:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It 's the worst feeling in the world especially if you been hurt by the person that you really love,feel like someone stab you with a knife at that exact moment.
2006-08-02 15:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by princess11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...it feels like your whole turst, love, memories, emotons are spit in your face and your heart got smashed becuase the one person you choose out of all the rest to give your heart to..did not feel the same and it feels as though the whole relationship was a big lie.
2006-08-02 15:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by :::Rae::: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very hurtful and painful if youve been with that person for long time sometimes if its real bad you may not even love someone the same again but there is always hope
2006-08-02 15:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by lady t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so hurtful... You feel like sh*t and you don't know who you hate the most: your bf/gf or the person with whom he/she cheated on you? Sometimes you even feel like taking revenge. You don't trust your bf/gf anymore and have difficulties trusting new guys/girls.
2006-08-02 15:03:25 · answer #8 · answered by Isabelia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feels like someone has stabbed your heart with the sharpest knife they could find, and just ripped it into little pieces. Although it feels like you're dying, you're not, you're just suffering and bleeding to death! And then, you get pissed!!!
2006-08-02 15:03:22 · answer #9 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it freakn suks everything u thot u had jus went to a waste like u just got stabbed wit a knife so many times it hurts badd but then it depends on wat kind of person u are i know for me i said *** dat hoe n now she calls me apologizing n wanting to get bak cuz i got a new grl dats hotter n more fun then she was!!!!!!!!!!!!it karma man itll get bak to them sooner or later
2006-08-02 15:03:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋