Just wondering
2006-08-02 07:55:27 · 35 answers · asked by nehemiah3131 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Say what?!
No, it is not gay for a Christian man, or any man, to dislike porn or strip clubs. Possibly you are attracted to women, but don't like your sexuality dressed with sleaze. You might also be a celibate with little or no interest in sex.
You are gay if, as a man, you strongly want to have sex with other men--especially if you act upon it.
2006-08-02 08:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by MNL_1221 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-18 01:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, being "gay" (in the sinful sense) is either having sex, or sexual fantasies, about other men (Romans 1:26-27).
It is NOT gay to have a low sex drive (1 Corinthians 7:1-9).
On the other hand, it would seem to be a sin for a Christian man to look at porn or to go to strip clubs (Job 31:1; Matthew 5:27-30;1 John 2:15-17).
2006-08-02 08:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is someone trying to live with values. Both porn and strip clubs do not respect women or men. Naked should be sacred, but it is made profane by porn and strip clubs. No doubt if you choose to marry, it is more of a precious respectful gift to give your future wife, and hopefully she to you. Even if she has degraded herself, often to get income, you can teach 'true love' that is respectful and humble. Gay refers to an attraction to males above females. However there is nothing wrong with the 'attraction'. It is how you act on it or not that causes problems, Just as married people, may even be attracted to someone else than their spouse, but it is no sin as long as they do not act on it, which includes thinking too much about the other outside person vs. your own spouse. So no that as such is not 'gay'.
2006-08-02 08:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by martian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is NOT gay if a Christian is a fornicator. It's avoiding sin. You can be a Christian and not be sexually addicted, in fact, you are responsible for being righteous as a Christian. You SHOULD NOT like porn or strip clubs - they are sin. How can a Christian live in sin any longer, it having been paid for by the blood of the atonement of Christ?
2006-08-02 08:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Of course not! Porn and strip clubs are places for people who does not follow Jesus. A real man of God does not like those things.
2006-08-02 08:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn and strip clubs merely degrade women... reduce them to mere flesh. When men see women as simply sex objects, that mentality facilitates and rationalizes abuse and other mistreatment. This mentality also harms a man's relationship with God and Jesus. Even Jesus treated women with respect.
I know I'm more than breasts and a pu--y. I'm so thankful that my husband sees, acknowledges and appreciates ALL facets of who and what I am.
2006-08-02 08:12:54 · answer #7 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, my sister's boyfriend doesn't like strip clubs (anymore...long story). He's definitely not gay. Now, if a guy doesn't like those things but people watches for hot guys....that would be gay.
2006-08-02 08:01:43 · answer #8 · answered by laetusatheos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. But it is perverted for someone to care about porn and strip clubs.
2006-08-02 08:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by racam_us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. As a Christian it is merly being satisfied with my wife. As for porn, whats the use, you cant have sex with the gals on the movie, it would be like seeing a pizza and not eating any.
2006-08-02 08:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋