I'm a 26 y/o male, professional, consider myself above average looking, in shape. I stay active and I go out on the weekends and partake in the nightlife of a big city where I reside. I have a problem where I meet wonderful women. But when I see their interest level in me higher, I cannot seem to decide with whom I'd want a meaningful relationship with. On one hand, a girl has a great personality, another is smart, another is beautiful, another is witty. I always see the best quality in a person and I am drawn to that, but how can I choose when there are so many options? I really want to settle down but I am having a hard time choosing. I almost considered to stop approaching women and letting them come to me. but that rarely works.
2006-08-02 07:50:31 · 5 answers · asked by John G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello John:
It took until I was 29 to meet the right woman. She knocked me off my feet as soon as I met her and I still feel that way and I am 43 now. When I started dating her things just got better and better. I fell in love and I have loved her more each day since then. The moral of the story is the right person will come along. When they do you will know. Don't rush it because if the wrong person they will always be the wrong person. I am now at the point in my life that I would rather be alone if I can't be with my wife. No kidding.
2006-08-02 07:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date them all casually before you take any serious action and find the one that makes you the happiest... you're only 26, you have plenty of time and you shouldn't be in any rush to settle down
its good that you find the best quality in a person, but sometimes love/lust makes you blind, find things that irritate you about that person, see if you can live with some of the quirky things they do. you never know until you get to know someone better.
and maybe you haven't come across the right girl yet, maybe theres someone out there that has all the qualities (good personality, intelligence, beauty and wit) all rolled into one
2006-08-02 14:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For beginners, the man is always supposed to pursue the woman...That is the narual order of things, so dont deviate from that. Second, identify what matters to you most as it pertains to a meanful relationship. What are your needs, desires, wants? What are your standards, values, principals? Once you have answers to these questions, the you begin to spend time with the woman who meets those needs. Always, always, always follow your heart and use discernment and wisdom. They are your friends and will stick with you thru your journey thru life and help you to navigate thru this journey. Also, dont be in a rush to make it happen. Allow it to happen naturally...go wit the natural flow of life......you will know once you meet her. Something in you will let you know.....Trust your intuition....:)
2006-08-02 14:59:15 · answer #3 · answered by sincere030170 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose me- I am all of the above but in one body. I will be your dream girl and I would marry you- I'm 24
2006-08-02 14:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't spend a day with each girl to get to know them better.
2006-08-02 15:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by sharkie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋