Okay we are having trouble with what to do about a reception. We are marrying on the beach- and cant decide to do a bbq on the beach, or have just appetizers on the beach, or go to apark, and have a caterer- We were going to go to a resturant, but then the guest list got longer- so it is going to be too much$. We want everyone there (only 50 people) and want to be casual and comfortable.Would a bbq be too informal for a weding? we are on a tight budget and getting married this oct.
2006-08-02 07:47:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I like the "cocktail hour" or bbq on the beach. but this beach does not allow tents, canopies, arch's etc.. So everyone would be in the sun. Also, then we would have to get tables, chairs, etc... It might end up being the same price to go to a resturant?
2006-08-02 08:03:25 · update #1
Do a clam bake.
2006-08-02 07:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by korbbec 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should do a little research and figure out how much any of your options will cost you - like you've mentioned, you have to factor in tables and chairs and all that if you have your reception at a beach or park, along with the cost of food. I think having appetizers at a park would be a good bet - unlike the beach, it's probably an easier place to set everything up without worrying about wind, sand everywhere, and the tides, and appetizers are easier to manage if you're doing it yourself. Having the greenery of a park all around is a nice touch, too. It's really up to you, though, and you may find that putting everything together yourself instead of working with a restaurant could be cheaper, but you'd have to do some research. And as for the BBQ, I don't think it's too informal for a wedding, but there's a chance it could be a little messier than you want, and you still would have to figure out who would cook everything and seating and all that. Good luck, and congratulations!
2006-08-02 17:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by KrisD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wedding can be as formal or as informal as you want it to be. Some people spend thousands of dollars and set their standards so high it doesn't seem to be worth it for one day. I would rather go to a beach bbq than a big fancy reception. That's just my style. I plan on doing something similar. I would provide a large tent for people to retreat from the sun.
If you do it the way YOU want you will enjoy it more and remember it forever!
Just remember to find out if you need a permit to throw a private party. Also let people know if its formal or casual or even beach wear on the invitation so they are comfortable and don't feel out of place.
2006-08-02 14:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the idea of a clam bake. A small party on the beach with a bonfire would be cool. You will want to check with the area though and see if you can have fires, or a party on the beach. It sounds like you are wanting something less formal, so going to a park unless you can walk there from the beach will ruin that. Do something small and fun... then take out the few close family or friends at another time to celebrate!
2006-08-02 14:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by Daring Zoey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you evaluate the cost of having it at a less expensive restaurant, or even a deli? Or serving lunch instead of dinner, or just serving dessert and iced tea rather than a full meal? Does the bech you are using have food carts or food vans, you could make arrangements for a company like that to "cater" ice cream cones or sandwiches or corn dogs or something to your area of the beach (the wedding hosts pick up the tab, of course, for whatever your guests consumed). What are you going to do if it rains or is cold in October?
2006-08-02 19:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by Etiquette Gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
October on the beach may be cold depending on what area of the country you are in. If you could find a catering company that offers wedding packages, you may be able to afford more than you think. Many places have halls to rent that have all the tables and chairs you need (elks lodge, ect). I rented a hall at my mom's mobile home park for $50 and $43 per head included buffet food, drinks (beer, wine, champagne, sodas, coffee), table linens, china, silverware and glassware. I found my caterer in a bridal magazine ad. They are also great for ideas on how to get the most for your money. Good Luck!
2006-08-02 16:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by Debbie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend had this same question a few months back. She ended up having appetizers and champagne on the beach. Like a cocktail hour sort of thing. It was great. Everyone thought it was very classy.
2006-08-02 14:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by Suzzette M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love the barbecue idea! My only problem is, if you and your guests are dressed too formally, you might worry about splashing barbecue sauce or hamburger grease on your clothes. (Get inexpensive wedding bibs, maybe?) Provide appetizers, too, if you can afford it.
You might also opt for a picnic on the beach or in the park, with barbecue as an option for your guests.
2006-08-02 14:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by MNL_1221 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a wedding on the beach, I think that a barbeque is appropriate. It is going to be a comfortable atmosphere where you can just have fun.
2006-08-02 14:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by martini_40727 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have a clam bake/bonfire at sunset. After the sunsets pop open the champagne (plastic flutes!) and pass out sparklers. It'll be fun and make for some amazing pictures!
2006-08-02 15:48:44 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think anything that fum like the limbo dance,maybe a private dance that can entertain your guest. hula dancer perhaps what about a pinata.have fun......... do you have a theme
2006-08-02 15:15:57 · answer #11 · answered by giggi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋