2006-08-02 07:46:59 · 40 answers · asked by lady t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do girls think that their personality doesn't show? Too many girls with great looks don't realize how many doors are opened for them. Most people would die for that kind of recognition once in their life. That kind of perception is often reflected in their personality and because of that people don't like what you project. Just make sure that you aren't portraying a junior high persona. Alot of girls never mature past this---they are spoiled! Grow mentally and be aware of what you send out and be patient and a good man will emerge. Just be a good woman for him.
2006-08-02 08:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by strong and soft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we decend from cavemen. We were hunters looking for the best specimen to sustain our family and tribe. We are wired to be stimulated or aroused by our vision (hence the popularity of porn with men to a greater extent than women). Also, when you first see someone the only thing you know about them is their look. It takes time to know a personality.
Having said that, often a less attractive person can become more attractive once their personality is known. That is why you should always develop a relationship before jumping in the sack, if that is what you are looking for. You will have more info about that person and a better chance of finding a sustained relationship.
If it is really a concern to someone, they should be making time to keep in shape, eat well, and be happy with themselves. It is good for your physical health, mental health, and your ego.
Good luck.
2006-08-02 07:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by KeithB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are in a society that has been molded to see the outside appearance. The Idiot Box (TV) is a prime example of the problem. Anything we see on TV, we want. Its a natural reaction. We are fixated on what we see initially. Its practically impossible to change the mind state of an entire generation! This question is a dead end. Hard to answer, but excellent debate topic. I helped where I could. Be Good! Peace
2006-08-02 08:09:21 · answer #3 · answered by Muney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we have eyes, Actually, Boys do See both, however, they often fall in love with their eyes before they fall in love with your personality. It's not a sin, it's just the way it is, learn to accept it, don't say you have to like it.
Why do girls have to keep asking this question anway? Women do the same thing, and you can't deny it, if on little thing like body hair or some other feature you don't like about a guy, you give him the cold shoulder. So it goes both way, so don't get mad at boys when you do the same thing yourselves, ladies.
2006-08-02 10:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the male mind is programmed to think visually. Think about it, they say boys are better in school at math and science. They're visual learners. They take what they see and go from there. Plus, boys are human. What's the first thing you notice about a person, their body or their brain?
2006-08-02 07:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is gentic no matter what girls say and wt some guys say... genticly they are pre-porgramed 2 look 4 girls... wt they find actactive is dwn 2 there up bringing.... but normaly they can look in girl and in 3 seconds theyknow if they are sexy or not.. if tehy find them sexy they go and talk to them... unless of course they have low self esteem and go 2 the un-sxy 1s... any ways then they might go ahead and say it but they might play itclever... but the also rember we still evoled from monkeys and fish and w/e and u don't see them look 4 persnilty jst the way human race is...
2006-08-02 07:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some boys do see personality but most girls don't notice boys like that nor do they want to talk to them
2006-08-02 07:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all boys are like that. some just wanna have someone they can feel and show off. i mean the first thing you see in a person is how they look anyways.
2006-08-02 07:51:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because realistically you can't SEE a personality.
You have to be attracted to someone physically first. Unless you get to know them as friends first than they become attractive in your eyes as a combination of physical and personality attraction.
But its not just for guys. Girls AND Guys do this.
2006-08-02 07:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men are visual creatures, and so are women, you dont see women dating 400 lb guys with great personalities....it works both ways. But if your talking about a guy that just likes you for your body and doesnt care about your personality, its cause hes a pig
2006-08-02 07:59:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋