ok my b/f and i have been dating for 15 months now and he used to care, call almost every night and always want to hang out, but now it seems as if he's always busy or even forgetting about me. Then im running into old friends and they are starting to care more than he does, they call me more then he will, visit me at work more than he will. etc. what should i do?
2006-08-02 07:42:00 · 8 answers · asked by jax 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well...from experience, that happend to my 3 yr relationship...he wanted more time wit his friends...dont call as often as he did...he keeps on sayin im out...im busy...ill call u later...but never does...in the end...we broke up because he feels that he wants more time wit his friends than me...and my friends call me and talk and see each other more...than him...
hes starting to move on...its like the beginning of problems that ur gonna face...i suggest talkin to him about it...make him understand...plan ahead...plan a day that u can spend time together and have fun...and show him wat he's missing out...
if you cant even plan spending a day together...then i suggest moving on...because in a relationship...each other has to give up time for each other...if hes not willing to...whats the point??...ur gonna be miserable...even if u keep ur relationship...
2006-08-02 08:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by lovejoey 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should tell him you love him and you should take a close look at yourself and see if you are like annoying, or always gloating, or maybe he is working 2 and is trying to get money to buy you things. Just never yell at him and say My friend visit me at work and she lives far away it will just piss him off and he will start thinking of breaking up with you but just ask him if he wants to chill or go to the movies. if money is the problem say you will pay and then just show up at his house
2006-08-02 07:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by Dum Spiro Spero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it COULD be losing interest, or he could be getting more food on his plate. Has he gotten a job, into sports, anything time consuming?
Oh, and the old friends are going to act like that (if they're guys) if they want to date you. Try to show him up. Stick with this guy and talk to him about it. That's the only way to really resolve this issue.
2006-08-02 07:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by Slippers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him if not let him go. Either he loves you and he will prove it to you or he does not know what he wants, and is starting to look elsewhere, but will not break up with you till he finds it. Most guys do not want to be alone so will look before breaking up. Figure out what is best for you and do it.
2006-08-02 07:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by fegarius 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try talking to him..if he doesnt have anything to say about then forget him and try moving on...i really get what you mean i bcuz i been through that too...some guys care and some just dont give a ****...so just listen to your heart...follow your heart...and it would lead you to the right path!!!!!
2006-08-02 07:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by kitty_katWants_toPlAy!!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will alwys hapen when sm1 else is tryin 2 win ur heart.
2006-08-02 07:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by thicksauce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl move on found u anotha man life is to short!!
2006-08-02 07:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its time to move on cuz time is wasting and sooo dump him before he can hurt u
2006-08-02 07:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by tomboystar49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋