i cant get over my ex boyfriend. He has a girlfriend now( but supposvely he likes me too) but thats not the case..its just i want to get over him but i dont know HOW!.. i think about him all the time..im in love with him.. i cry everynight thinking bout how i wish he was here with me, && i cant just ignore him though becuz he is my best guy friend & and we talk alot..&& dont worry im not bothering him becuz he does have a girlfriend so i dont hit on him or ne thing.. i treat him like a normal friend.. but i just need some advice how to get over him.. PLEASE!?
2006-08-02 07:40:52 · 16 answers · asked by chels 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop thinking about him
make new friends and have a girls night and chill out with other people. you'll never get over him if you don't distance yourself. trust me. if you put enough distance between you and him for a while, you'll move on, or at least accept that he has and be happy for him and then you'll be able to have closure and be able to enjoy your life instead of being miserable. im not saying to stop being friends with him, just keep yourself busy enough to have good times and realize that your life is fine without him. it's okay to cry, but not all the time. remember that there is always more guys out there and that you'll find someone who's right for you.
good luck
2006-08-02 07:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe what you need is to find you a new b/f that shares common interests with you. That way you can form new feelings and try to move past your obstacle of still feeling something for you ex, Now that he has a new girl I am sure he is more focused on her, but is nice that you and him are still friends. Just remember to keep your distance and continue on your path as friend and nothing more. He may wish that you find someone better than he, the next guy may be able to do more for you then you ex.
2006-08-02 07:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you can not handle being his friend right now! You need to give yourself some time. Go out with some friends get to no other guys and just do something where you will not think about him so your heart can heal! Good Luck to you i no the feeling i cried for like a week straight maybe longer.
2006-08-02 07:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by smiles18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over a guy is to find another guy. Find yourself a bf. Even more, you'll make him gelouse. And try not to talk about everything with him anymore. You have a realtionship behind you and things just cannot be the same as they we're before you two got togheter.
2006-08-02 07:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by danutzao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never treat him like a normal friend because you are in love with him. You have to break your friendship with this guy for a period of tme so that you can get over him. Start dating and take time out to enjoy yourself. Move on. He has moved on with his life.
2006-08-02 07:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by joebaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way you can get over him is to distance yourself from him and establish new, more healthier relationships.
Also, keeping busy with friends and family will help you cope as well. As long as you are stuck in the house dwelling on him, waiting for his phone call, the harder it's going to be to get over him.
So live your life to the fullest, because trust me, he is living his.
Don't Live Life In The Dark,
Master Psychic Rachel
2006-08-02 07:47:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have told me that the best way to get over someone is to find someone else. Don't let your infatuation hold you back from finding that next guy that will be lucky to have you as part of his life. Good Luck!
2006-08-02 07:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 18:15:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kno hes a male friend 2 u but u gotta calm down spending time 2gether and give him all the thing that he gave u back and get rid of any pictures yowl took so u dont see any reason to think of him and delete his #'s its ok to think of him and cry but dont do it all the time try not to do thing that remind u of him it a slow but sure process
2006-08-02 07:48:16 · answer #9 · answered by confused89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in a similar position
she doesnt have a bf but i want her and she s not ready for me
and i m trying to get her off my mind
i have to admit i havent spoken to her in a month and i m slowing feeling better but i do wake some morning missing her like crazy and it has been months already
she the one i let get away
good luck and if u have the answer let me know i need it too
email me peterfl999@yahoo.com
2006-08-02 07:47:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋