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we are a different culture from you, why do you think you can treat us the same way? you treat me like the western girls it doesnt work

2006-08-02 07:34:40 · 28 answers · asked by Satomi Motohashi 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

I studied English for 15 years so its good... why some of you don't understand it?

2006-08-02 07:45:29 · update #1

28 answers

If you dont like the way western men treat you then why dont you find yourself an asian man?

2006-08-02 07:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 11 4

When in Rome, do what the Romans do..... Do not expect to change countries and still think your living in Asia, just because u happen to live in a asian populated town. If your dating outside of your culture then expect to be treated differently or else find yourself an Asian guy.

2006-08-02 07:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by spidermaniii_06 2 · 0 0

Culture, tradtion, relgions should never be respected as that leads to bad people abusing power over folk and irrational unfair thinking and inequality.


Good aspects of culture are dance, food, fashion, festivals, and those are fun to mix...


Why should you get treated differently as you are asian in a better way, any different to do you like getting mistreated for being asian...


It works both ways...

You don't like getting called a pak ee right? or being told you can't get a job as a mechanic as female?

Well it then goes that you don't get specail treatment either as female or asian either.

People should treat you as they would like you to treat them.

Whoever they are.


You can explore each others cultures good aspects... No probs with that... ie I'll have a go at green tree drinking and don't mind loosing the shoes in the house... thats fair..., you want to avoid alcohol fine... I dont drink either. But if you are going to appear in a overblown ninja suit with no face and expect us to give you a separate table as female, and ban porky pig cartoons forget it.

As we have seen videos of stoning etc.

2006-08-02 07:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

With respect for her, her culture and her family. Families are very important in Asian society. Also, you have to remember that girls within that culture often do not have the same "freedoms" as Western girls, very sadly. So proceed carefully.

2006-08-02 07:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by F E 1 · 0 0

you cannot treat an Asian like a western girl , Asian women are pure at heart , sensitive, very family oriented , and they know how to treat there men, im italian and only date asians

2006-08-02 07:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Question is too vague: but here is the serious answer:
Ask him if it's OK to meet his family. Deep down inside every asian girl, has a strong will to get married, have kids, and find a good husband, they DON"T date to 'have fun' they date to find and pick a potential husband, So, if anybody talks about their family, and invites you to a date, and says, i love kids, and you ask: what do you say I go meet your family with you this weekend? if he said, "-Yes, !!" marry that guy. Here is the way to date ASIANS! especially the ones, not-born in the US. --still original asian-babes.. Do you agree?

2006-08-02 07:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by KOMik Kaze 1 · 0 0

I'll take you to meet mama san and papa san. Roll you some sushi and slice you up a plate of fugu sashimi. Take you to see the cherry blossums, walk along a deserted beach, watch the sunset, sunrise and count the stars at night. Is it a date?

2006-08-02 07:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by MrSushiRoll 4 · 0 0

Are u Asian or American?I didn't get Ur question at all,Sry
(after i read the question,i edited this answer)

Hey!This is something gotta do with racism rit?I am Asian,but not Chinese or Japanese.And am not hard!lol

2006-08-02 07:41:56 · answer #8 · answered by Lilac 5 · 0 0

I don't think anyone would realize that there is a difference. You may just have to explain it to the person and see if they are willing to try. If they really like you they will understand and try to make you fee more comfortable.

2006-08-02 07:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by David P 3 · 0 0

Then do not date our culture. You date us, we treat you like us? Any more questions?

2006-08-02 07:37:28 · answer #10 · answered by Marshal 3 · 0 0

so if i go to an eastern country i can treat the women like westerners? you can't have it both ways.....when in rome, do as the romans do!

2006-08-02 07:48:55 · answer #11 · answered by zoo2626 4 · 0 0

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