What is a guaranteed way to prevent a woman from cheating?

Question

I've been noticing what women say about cheating, and it's been aggravating me. The reasons are so B.S.

Like "I cheated because my man didn't pay enough attention to me" or "I cheated because my man didn't give me that emotional connection..."

It's kinda funny, when a guy admits to cheating, he won't have any excuse for it. He'll just say "I'm sorry." When a woman cheats though, its always "I'm sorry BUT blah blah blah YOU DIDN'T blah blah blah EMOTIONS."

I mean, why must you women always have an excuse for your cheating? Can you just not understand that there is no excuse for it? Do you honestly think ANYTHING is truly your fault?

P.S. - If you women are ever caught cheating and say "but I love you" its the most annoying thing you can possibly say. Love is supposed to make you NOT cheat.

When you say "but I love you" we guys don't think "Well, she cheated on me, but she loves me, so I guess its OK!"

No, we're guys. We think "Some guy's dick has been in her vag."

Answer 1

The only "guaranteed" way to prevent a woman from cheating is to break up with her. Then she won't be your girlfriend any more and hence can't cheat on you. If you go through the rest of your life without a girlfriend, nobody can ever cheat on you again.

On the other hand, you could try to build a relationship based on respect, openness, and mutual trust. If a girl cheated on you, maybe she's shallow, or maybe she has a stronger sex drive than you, or maybe she was just drunk. But she had a reason. If you don't want to accept that reason, break up with her. But be a man about it and don't hang around here, pissing and moaning about it all day.

Grow some balls, buddy.

Answer 2

"What is a guaranteed way to prevent a woman from cheating?" ~There isn't necessarily a gauranteed way of keeping a woman from cheating, as long as you know that you treat her right and are good to her, then you shouldn't feel responsible.

"It's kinda funny, when a guy admits to cheating, he won't have any excuse for it. He'll just say 'I'm sorry.' When a woman cheats though, its always 'I'm sorry BUT blah blah blah YOU DIDN'T blah blah blah EMOTIONS.' " ~This is because for a woman it usually has more to it than just the fact that she had sex. Guys don't think of sex the same way as girls - it's more logical for them. Plus if the guy cheated for a reason other than he just wanted a good .... then he probably won't be as open about it as a girl would, unless he REALLY cares about the person and is really sorry that he did it.

"If you women are ever caught cheating and say 'but I love you' its the most annoying thing you can possibly say. Love is supposed to make you NOT cheat." ~Guys are guilty of this too, and not just on the issue of cheating..

"When you say 'but I love you' we guys don't think 'Well, she cheated on me, but she loves me, so I guess its OK!' " ~Neither do girls, it takes time to heal from having someone cheat on you, whether you are a girl or guy, it hurts the same.

"No, we're guys. We think 'Some guy's dick has been in her vag.' ~Yeah we think the same sort of thing too, he was kissing her, touching her, inside her...etc. It causes most people to doubt every aspect of the relationship, not just the physical stuff.

Answer 3

Alright dude. To my overstanding, a GUARANTEED way to prevent you lady from cheating is be her friend. Talk with her (most women love to talk) and surely she'll open up like a car door. Unless she just doesn't respect you or there is some void she has that you or no immediate person can fill. Relationships are an emotional balance. Life is balance. If there is no balance there is no relationship. Real Talk. On wrong turn and its a roller coaster. We live and we learn. The difference between a man and a boy are the lessons we learn. There has to be an understanding between the two BEFORE there can be an overstanding of one another (If that makes any sense to anyone). At the end of the day, if there is no love or respect, there is no prevention simply... Be Good! Peace.

Answer 4

Mr. Chivalry says, "If a man loves a woman like she should be loved, then she will have no reason to stray. If a woman cheats, then typically she will have a reason. Just like you said. Guys don't make up excuses, as you say. Here are the driving factors.
Men are physical beings; women are emotional beings. Men are sexual predators, by nature. When men cheat, it's because they feel they need more than one partner, and their nature fools them into thinking that they aren't supposed to be tied to just one person. Women's emotions are typically going to allow them to love a man more emotionally than physically. If they feel that they aren't getting the love they need, then they WILL find it elsewhere. If they feel neglected, they are easily susceptible to getting it from another man.

Not don't get me wrong; if ANYONE cheats, it is wrong. Men just don't try to justify it like women do. And also, there are some women that cheat just because, as well. So men aren't the only dogs. You will find only a small number of those women though. In conclusion, cheating is cheating, and it isn't right."

Mr. Chivalry has spoken.

Answer 5

Let's see.......you are saying so when a guy cheats he doesn't NEED a REASON. But when a woman cheats, she HAS to have a reason. OMG. How double standard is that?????
So then -- you are reading these on here and the question might be something like "why did you cheat" --- ok - the question is "why." The person wanted the answer and the other person answered it. So, do the guys only say "oh just because I wanted to F someone else" --- I don't know where you're going with this but it sounds like someone must have cheated on you to make you be feeling this strongly about answers to that question.

Answer 6

There is no guaranteed way to prevent anyone from cheating. There is no excuse for it either, so no matter what anybody says there's no good reason. We are not bound to each other, even in marriage. If a person feels the need to be with another, they should end the relationship so he/she can be free to do whatever it is that he/she pleases. Personally, I don't understand cheaters. Like I said, if I wanted to be with someone else, I'd leave my husband so I could ...with a clear conscience.

Answer 7

My gf cheated on me and she didnt make up an excuse she said she didnt no why she did it. She said sorry and that she loved me. yes that love thing did kind of make me flip out. And yes one thought i had was what you said all guys think. You shouldn't have to keep someone from cheating on you. There is no excuse for it and it is one of the worst things you could ever do especially since you are doing it to someone you "love" trust me there is always a scar but i did forgive but i will never forget.

Answer 8

A guaranteed way is to tie her up in the basement and just let her out when you can control her 100%.

SHEESH, man!!! Some people cheat, some don't. Some have "reasons", some haven't. IMO, people who cheat, male or female, are people who want to eat the cookie but still keep it. Indecisive guys/gals who can't bear to devote their lives to just one S.O but are too scared to stay single. The gals who brag on the Net about cheating don't equal *all women*, either.

There ARE no bleeding guarantees in life, and if you keep believeing there are, you'll go nuts.

If you love her, trust her. If she cheats on you, deal with it when it happens. That's all I have to say.

Answer 9

You know what.. I totally know how you feel.. but towards men with me.. I'm thinking... why cheat...Whhhhyyyyyyy...
But just think.. if they truly do love you, then they wouldn't be able to cheat.. if they do.. obviously they never had you on your mind when they did cheat.
Just think.. cheating is something that's probably going to happen to a good majority of all of us..it's not something you can control.
I thought by doing everything that my man wanted me to do.. he'd never be able to do it.. but he has seen other women.. and I tried my best.. I tried everything, but there's no way to avoiding it.. if their going to do it.. they'll do it.
And you know what.. there's no excuse for it.. none at all.. their is no right answer..cheating is cheating.. simple as that.

Answer 10

Um... I think this is total BS.
It goes both ways- guys and girls do it all the time and they all make excuses- I think its really sad.....
Stats say 25% of married men have admitted to cheating and 75% of men all together have cheated while in a relationship.
Every girl in my office has been cheated on by their man.
The only way to prevent your significant other from cheating is to tie them down at home and put a chasity belt on them.

Answer 11

love them with all your heart and keep them happy, and if she truly loves you she wont cheat. but if shes an ungrateful slut shes going to cheat anyway.

its sad that some have excuses. there is no excuse. if they value their relationship they would tell their loved one whats bothering them. COMMUNICATION! and if the problem isnt resolved, break up. but dont cheat.

yea i dont understand the "but i love you" thing either.. its so stupid. i see that bs on those talk shows everyday. its disgusting, and very dangerous. my mothers friend died from aids because her and her husband both cheated on each other. one of them got aids and gave it to the other. now they're both dead

ps. please do not say "you women." i am a woman and i do not support cheating of any kind. no matter what the reason is.