Im 14 and i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. He is also 14 and well latly he hasnt acted so in to me!!
When i call he always says he will call me back but then he never does, he waits till like the next day or really late that nite. and when he calls back he acts like nothing is wrong!!
But when i get mad he always tells me to shut up and that it aint his fault he has a life and i dont!!
And when i try to talk to him about our relationship and how we act he always hangs up or makes me shut up!!
What isup with that????
Plz help you guys i need it!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-02 07:11:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't change other people. You can only limit your exposure to them.
If you have a Must-Have criteria of someone calling you back as quickly as humanly possible, you need to state this up front.
When some guys have a needy girl on their hands, or they have their own life, they call back on their terms. You can't change the person, just with whom you're playing.
2006-08-02 07:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by Tony T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, 14 years old and you've been in a relationship for almost a year? here's my advice: (1) loose the boyfriend. you're 14, you have so much life to live and learn, you are being held back and distracted. live for yourself, not for him. (2) he seems like a real class act, he maybe 14, but he is acting like he is 11. study hard, do well in school, live your life with your friends and be happy, not miserable with this child. good luck
2006-08-02 07:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by reanimated11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are letting him tell you that he has a life and you don't, hang up on you and "make" you shut up??
I hate to tell you this, but it sounds to me like it's already over. You shouldn't ever allow any guy to talk to you like this. It might be hard, but you need to break up with him and find someone who knows that part of "boyfriend" is "friend" and that you need to treat your significant other at least as well as you would your friends!
2006-08-02 07:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by BB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE 14!!! It doesn't matter how he treats you. Yeah sure you have been together for almost a year but there are a whole lot of other boys out there that are probably cutie and will treat you a whole lot better than he does. Trust me, you'll find somebody else.
2006-08-02 07:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by drama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i am amber too lol,neways u either tell him what ur problem is even if he tells u to shutup,dont u want a bf that has respect for u,if u are gonna out up with it make a life with with him hang out more or u could go hang out with ur gurls or een some boys and he will git jealous lol
2006-08-02 07:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 are you kidding me? Neither one of you quite knows what it is that you want. You are not going to get any kind of commimtment from a 14 year old boy; remember girls mature much faster.
2006-08-02 07:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by swayed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey he is interested in someone else but doesn't know how to tell you so I think you should see someone else your to young for these kind of problems have fun date but try not to get serious next time
2006-08-02 07:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by Jo3-Jo3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 14 and have a whole life ahead of you. One guy isnt gonna destroy you.
2006-08-02 07:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by bigjugs202001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 14 what is the rush to have a boyfriend take it easy, you will might better people who will treat you right,
2006-08-02 07:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by pooh_lrh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him, no girl should be treated like that and by the sounds of that he's not worth it.
2006-08-02 07:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by margera_96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋