How you handle it....how you react....how you solve it?
2006-08-02 07:04:58 · 20 answers · asked by dhe_ice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should be proud.. eventhough he hav a lot of fans... his heart belong to u
2006-08-02 07:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by kzzxguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You handle it by being nice to them and not sticking to his side and acting jealous. If he's gonna cheat, he's gonna cheat and there isn't anything you can do to stop him. Being friendly to them will help some, because it's harder to steal a guy from a nice girl. Acting jealous will only show them you're insecure and make them think that his dumping you is a possibility, so be every bit the cheerful, happy couple.
2006-08-02 07:09:04 · answer #2 · answered by BB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. Don't try to "solve" anything. If he's worth anything then the tons of girl fans won't matter at all to him. Seriously. It's the same deal with me, only I think of them more as friends. My girlfriend hates it but I let her know that none of them would ever come close to the way I feel about her.
2006-08-02 07:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure you do not react at all... as long as they are just friends. Its not good to be over possesive like that...what can he do if he has fans...however if he is the type of guy who flirts with other girls just to get thier attention and who tries too hard to get female firends than I guess... he lacks attention from your side. You need to priase him, give him more attention to foster his ego.
If he still does not change and continues to flirt ...you do the same to get male friends...and see how he will react. You will get a solution to your problem
2006-08-02 07:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to handle a situation if your boyfriend knows how to handle himself. Just be calm and collective. If you know he's not doing anything, there's nothing to worry about. Trust in him and have faith in him. Just stand by him and make your presence felt.
2006-08-02 07:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by dsd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to him of youre feelings, and if he is on the defensive side then you know they all are not just friends. anyway if he love you the right way he would have been close that circle of female friends. do you know these girls? if not you have other issuse to address/if you 2 have been as 1 for over 6 months then there might be trust issues as well. if he can't let go of the female friends then you need to let him go in the wind.
2006-08-02 07:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're secure in who you are as a person, you know that he only be looking at you. Explain how you feel jealous to him and I'm sure his response will tell you if he's a player or just friendly with a lot of girl.
2006-08-02 07:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by Richie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worst thing is to be jealous and cause a scene. You need to remind him why he chose you in the first place, by being supportive and affectionate, but not a door mat!!. If he's a decent guy he'll stick by you regardless of temptation.
2006-08-02 07:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by xbkw46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put things in another way.
if u are ur bf now, how do u think he will react??
Do u trust him or do u have confidence in him??
Cause if u do, just be the way u r and u don have to worry about anything. if he betray u, there are many many trees out there for u to choose from.
:p don worry too much its bad for health.
2006-08-02 07:12:34 · answer #9 · answered by Headache 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your absolutly sure of what you feel for him and of what he feels for you, there shouldn't be a problem. What i sense is that you're not very sure of your feelings. Try to clarify them and maybe talk with your boyfriend and tell him that all those girls make you nervous, should you be?See what his answer is and you will find out if you should worry or not. Good luck.
2006-08-02 07:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by danutzao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he is a public figure that is part of his makeup and fans will always be around, the best thing to remember is he picked you to be his girlfriend, and that makes your relationship special, right? ...Treat him as you would want to be treated and prayerfully some day he will ask you for a permanent relationship. Best wishes and prayers =)
2006-08-02 07:09:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋