I'm 8 months pregnant and my boyfriend has been cheating on me the whole 8 months he talks to me like i'm nothing and sometimes he hits me i keep thinking that it will get better but it never does i'm trying to hold on until the baby gets here maybe that will make him change i'm scared to leave now because he's the only person i have all my friends and family don't talk to me because of him
2006-08-02 06:49:04 · 12 answers · asked by Lala L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's time to let go. If he treats your poorly now, he'll treat you even worse when the baby arrives. A baby should be a joyous occassion, but for inexperienced parents who are not ready for the responsibility, this time can be quite stressful, causing him to lash at you even more. Do you want this man to treat you badly in front of your baby? Do you want your baby to witness violence when he/she is older? It's not worth it. Besides, what kind of man hits a pregnant woman???? He is definitely not marriage material!!! Your family will probably be more than gracious to help you when you drop this deadbeat.
2006-08-02 06:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by adjoadjo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk to your friends and family about leaving him...I'm sure they would talk to you, if they knew that you wanted to leave your relationship. You should never have to put up with a man hitting you, especially when you are pregnant. If the hitting is serious, call the cops and get a restraining order. Call your family, they probably miss you!
2006-08-02 06:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by aerosmithbaby05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A leopard won't change its spots. Don't wait another day. Get out & get help. If your family doesn't know he hits you, maybe it's time to tell them. He needs to get help on his own. Have faith in yourself. You need to learn to depend on you before you can have a child depend on you. If family turns their back on you after knowing the full story, ask your doctor for the # of a local women's shelter. Your boyfriend needs to be now & forever your EX boyfriend. My neice is going though the same thing. Her baby is almost a year old. Beating, cheating boyfriends don't change. There are better things out there for you. Good Luck & God Bless!
2006-08-02 08:43:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me be the first to tell you NO it will not get better. As much as you love him, you gotta leave. If it was just you, well, that would be totally on you but, now your involving your baby and that's dangerous. The man needs help (no doubt), and you can be the help he needs if you get away from him. I had to learn the same lesson so I'm not just talking, I'm putting out facts. True love dosen't hurt. If you don't want to leave for yourself, at least think about your beautiful innocent baby.
2006-08-02 06:59:41 · answer #4 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to that question. Trust yourself. You shouldn't let anyone treat you that way.
You have a child to think about, not just yourself. Undue stress will hurt your child. Besides, your child should not see you putting up with that. You have to become a good example. Leave him.
Your family loves you but they don't respect you because you don't respect yoursef by staying with this loser. Regain their respect and leave him. They will be supportive if they see you care for yourself and your child.
He still has to contribute to your child, legally, but you can decide whether or not to keep a friendship with him. You two are coparents, and it is his choice whether or not to contribute to raising the child.
If he lacks interest, keep your distance from him (especially if he is abusive)...children should not be around that.
He is cheatng because he feels inadequate and like a disappointment to you, and it is his way of "getting back at you" by cheating.
It makes him feel more powerful to have someone else on the side, at your expense. What kind of woman is she, if she plays along even after knowing about you? If she knows, but still sees him (knowing what kind of guy he is like) they deserve each other.
Leave him. You deserve to be with someone who is onto you and only you, and brave enough to let you in on his inadequacy issues, and look to you for your support.
2006-08-02 07:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him and instead of just having him, you will have your friends and your family back. they are probably trying to protect you cause he seems like such a violent and angry person. If you don't leave soon, you don't know what he will do to you. You and your baby could die. Is that what you want? Call up your family and ask for their help to get you out of there right away!
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2016-12-10 20:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go. Run. The kid won't change the way he treats you, so don't kid yourself. If your family or friends won't let you leave him and move in right away, call a woman's shelter. By all means, don't let him hold you there. Just go.
2006-08-02 06:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy who hits his girlfriend doesn't deserve to be with anyone! I feel really sorry for you. There is no way that your current boyfriend is going to be a good father. If he doesn't treat you properly, then why will he treat your child properly. Get rid of him, you can do way better!
2006-08-02 06:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him... and let your friends and family know you've done so. You'll have more people around you, than if you were to stay with him. Seems like he isn't even around either for you.
2006-08-02 06:59:38 · answer #10 · answered by Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋