we are both very good freinds and me and the girl are not bad freinds either
should i talk to her and say somethig to her
or what can i say to help him?
2006-08-02 06:45:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Remain friends with the girl, she didn't do anything bad to you. You shouldn't get in the middle of things though, that's their business.
You can't help him...learning to let go of something will take it's natural course on him.
You can learn to be sensitive though--making sure that you don't mention anything upsetting to your friend.
2006-08-02 06:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by the_memory_of_ashes 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
talk to both of them they need your help they just broke up and will need you at your side the guy might want to talk to his other friends do not feel sad if he does your a girl and he's might need some space for some time maybe you can take him to the movies or something i have a friend that's a boy if he got dumped i be there for him
2006-08-02 06:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by the spacing out queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 points
2006-08-02 06:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him out and do something fun with him, get his mind off of it. She obviously dumped him for a reason. Whether it be right or wrong, it is not your place to get involved. Help him get over it. Be there for him and keep him occupied.
2006-08-02 06:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to be there with him. I suggest hanging out with him, going to eat, whatever, if hes alone he will call her and beg him to take him back or just be sad thinking of her. If hes busy he wont be thinking of her as much. You dont have to pick sides just realize if its not meant to be, its not meant to be and be there for both of them.
2006-08-02 06:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by honeyinthelexus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,theres nothing you can do to mend there relationship,trust me....you cannot force them to love each other,its better for them to be separate if anyone of them feel that they are not meant to be together....its better if they talk to each other rather than u doing so.......
about helping me,yes you can do so by talking to him and explaining him that this is not the end of the world,life has to go on and there is someone better in store for him,why does he want to waste his life and love for someone who doesn't care,is he not worth enough to find someone,who would love and respect him and his feeling?ask him to get involved in some kinda sport,it'll help him build his self confidence....
2006-08-02 06:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone repeats this inane saying "just be there for him"..i dont get that...Dude, ask the gf why she dumped your friend. Ask your friend why he thinks he was dumped...then try to reconcile the two in your own mind by asking this question :"if i did this to my gf or my gf did this to me, can i take him back or her back?"..that will help u to decide either to stay out of your friends bizness or to meddle in it...
2006-08-02 06:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him but do not intervene unwanted. Listen to him, give him a shoulder to lean/ cry on. Take him out to have some fun, etc.
2006-08-02 06:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Forer effect is the incontrovertible fact that individuals who will supply severe accuracy rankings to descriptions of their character that supposedly are adapted particularly for them. they are, truly, obscure and well-known adequate to stay with to an excellent variety of people. This effect provides you a partial clarification for the time-honored popularity of a few ideals and practices, inclusive of astrology, fortune telling, and styles of character tests. A appropriate and greater well-known phenomenon is that of subjective validation. The horoscope section in Yahoo solutions is a suitable occasion of this habit. Subjective validation happens while 2 or greater unrelated or maybe random events are gave the impression to be appropriate through fact a concept, expectancy, or hypothesis demands a dating. as a result human beings seek for a correspondence between their concept of their character and the contents of a horoscope. you have an mind-blowing want for human beings to love and take excitement in you. you have an inclination to be serious of your self. you have a great deal of unused means which you haven't any longer became on your benefit. at an identical time as you have some character weaknesses, you're in many cases waiting to make amends for them. Disciplined and self-controlled outdoors, you have a tendency to be worrisome and insecure interior. at cases you have severe doubts to whether you have made the suitable suited decision or accomplished the suitable suited ingredient. you want a definite quantity of substitute and form and grow to be disillusioned while hemmed in by regulations and limitations. You delight your self as an self sufficient logician and don't settle for others' statements with out passable info. you have chanced on it unwise to be too frank in revealing your self to others. at cases you're extroverted, affable, and sociable, at an identical time as at different cases you're introverted, careful, reserved. a number of your aspirations tend to be especially unrealistic. risk-free practices is taken under consideration one of your substantial goals in life.
2016-10-01 09:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by kerby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it, let them work it out. In the mean time hang out with the guys and bring him along, drink, club, and whatever else you guys do when we're not around.
2006-08-02 06:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Butler ♥2 B♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋