We are in this long distance relationship for 3 months already. He is accessible to all communication gadgets (i.e. SMS, e-mail and Phone) but I didn't receive any from him. My cousin told me that a girl answed his mobile on his behalf. What should I do?
2006-08-02 06:44:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should explain to your boyfriend what you've heard and tell him you don't like the way he is handling the long term relationship.
Then dump him
If he cares about you he will try to win you back
2006-08-02 06:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime your in a long distance relationship there are going to be trust issues, I mean your so far apart and can get lonley, if he had a friend (girl) and she is there for him when he is alone, things might have gone too far.. I think you should talk to him about it, and if your able to trust him then stay with him.. but you'll probably always have in the back of your mind what if.. soo probably breaking up would be best, especially now since you've only been with him 3months.. Good luck and try to find someone closer to you!
2006-08-02 06:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by sarah s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and ask him to explain himself, but try to give him the benefit of the doubt. He may just be busy, and the girl who answered his phone may have been a friend he was hanging out with. However if his explanation sounds shady or he doesn't have one at all, I would dump him. People in long-distance relationships have to be very trustworthy and loyal or things just won't work.
2006-08-02 06:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by jellybean24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see why you're suspicious. If you're apart then you expect contact regularly as a show of affection. It sounds as though he's preoccupied but the girl picking up his phone could have an innocent explanation. What ever you obviously need to know but try and be calm, if the worst happens best to keep some dignity.
2006-08-02 06:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by xbkw46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 21:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should demand an explanation and if doesn't sound right then move on. Long distance relationships are very hard when are not truly committed to someone, like when you are married.
2006-08-02 06:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by Keke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what should you do? don't jump to conclusions. having a friend who is a girl isn't the same as having a girlfriend, trust me.
you need to put your foot down and demand that he keep more regular contact with you, not because you don't trust him, but because it's respectful.
trust him though, until he's proven incapable of being trusted. trust is important in long distance relationships.
2006-08-02 06:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by entropicflux 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o...k...lets break out the rocket science here. He obviously sucks. He doesn't like you at all. well, at least that's my opinion. The least he could do is e-mail you or something! Dayum! If a girl answered his phone, he either told her to do it because he wanted you to get pissed and dump him, or he wasn't around and she was just being a *****. Or maybe your cousin lied because she desperately wants you to dump that loser.
PS. i forgot to say that maybe he just wants some ***.
2006-08-02 06:54:17 · answer #8 · answered by Tamara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see,this is the problem in long distance relationships,they lack trust and how can u go on if u dont trust each other....its better to call it off or just take some time out till he comes back or till u guys are in the same town........
without trust nothing is possible and theres no love to be there for,so just move on......before it worsens!!
2006-08-02 06:50:05 · answer #9 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you cannot dump him as he has already dumped you first just has not bothered to tell you.
Of course when he comes back he will want his oats again and give you some sad heart story and you will make up and bed him again.
2006-08-02 06:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by Gingerbread Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋