...if you knew from the start that the person would die in six months?
2006-08-02 06:37:21 · 10 answers · asked by truthyness 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What if you certainly would feel tremendous pain and loss after the 6 months?
2006-08-02 07:10:36 · update #1
Yes. Think of the happiness and joy you could bring to that person in those last 6 months. Better to love and lose than to not love at all.
2006-08-02 06:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_lil_cowgirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would enter into that relationship without even a single moment of hesitation.
To meet a person that you connect with on so many levels is extremely rare and is a moment you should never pass up. Every moment of happiness, no matter how inane, no matter how short, will be with you until the Grim Reaper arrives for you.
It also seems impossible to gain so much from a person without giving back just the same, so you would make those last six months something wonderful for this special someone.
It's moments like these that define a human being, and the relationship would impact the survivor for the best. A person shown happiness and kindness will undoubtedly show kindness to others, which makes others happy, and they perform acts of kindness themselves in turn. This could create a 'butterfly effect' bringing happiness in lesser degrees to others.
Never pass up a moment to experience true happiness, or to perform a kindness. You never know who it will effect...and at the very least, it reflects on your life brightly.
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Same will apply even if I would suffer intense pain and suffering for another six months, six years, or sixty years. The pain will go away eventually, and you'll always remember the good times. The gift to the person you care about and the happiness you gave them would be worth it.
2006-08-02 13:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by Slipshade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could if I also would die in six months.
I wouldn't want to find the love of my life have them for only six months, lose them and then have to continue living a normal life span.
Since finding someone like that would be a rarity I would think you would wander around feeling such a tremendous loss, and even if you found someone who was suitable they would never be able to replace the other person.
Granted all love is a risk and no one knows what the next day will bring or if there will even be a next day, but I personally would not want to put myself in that kind of situation knowingly.
2006-08-02 14:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by Quest4questions 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. share the love! Life is short!
2006-08-02 13:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by MrSushiRoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. No time is wasted. If anything, it could be the best six months of your life.
2006-08-02 13:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by love earth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you know before hand not to get attached.and you could make his last 6 months great for him.
2006-08-02 13:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so because a person like that i would fall in love with and i wouldnt be able to deal when he passed on.
2006-08-02 13:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-08-02 13:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, because experiencing those things, is better than not expereincing them at all
2006-08-02 13:41:54 · answer #9 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it would be too painful.
2006-08-02 14:07:20 · answer #10 · answered by yamaha bassman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋