my boyfriend suggested a threesome with one of my friends what should I do?
last night my boyfriend suggested a threesome. the friend he suggested is moving this weekend and i think he might like her so i think thats why he suggested Her. i've thought about it but she's someone i know and it would be weird. so he suggested it be some i dont know. he really wants to have one. i asked him about having a threesome with a guy to see how he would react and he straight up said "NO". but i told him, if he can't have a threesome with a guy, then i can't have one with a girl. am i being a b|tch or am i being a good girlfriend?
2006-08-02 06:34:39 · 18 answers · asked by JAnIcE J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if he isn't willing to do it the way would you like it then I say "no" to him also. Don't do it just because he wants it. It should be something you want to do also.
2006-08-02 06:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by just me being me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ladies tend to get that plenty, in the event that they muck around with yet another guy they are considered as a '****' yet while a guy does it this is nice. in case you at the instant are not happy approximately having a threesome then do no longer, common as. If speaking approximately this is in basic terms inflicting arguments then go away the comprehensive subject for a at an identical time as and probably, in some months, carry it up back. With issues like this you may desire to place your self first, do no longer pass by way of something like that just to make somebody else happy.
2016-10-01 09:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by kerby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you think about how you feel and not do it because he wants it. If this is something that you want to try then fine but if you are doing this for him only then you shouldn't to it at all. Guys are always asking for these sexual pleasures but it doesn't mean you have to do them all. It seems that you both have an honest relationship so just tell him how you feel about doing it with this person or at all. Don't do something you will regret cause it will hurt you in the long run.
2006-08-02 06:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by sassy_italia4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything you are uncomfortable with. threesomes or bringing anyone into the relationship is bad. you will get jealous of him touching her more, or kissing her more, or straight up paying more attention to her. it will make you crabby and unfun for the rest of the time. DONT DO IT. if he wants a threesome he can watch it on the porn channel like all the other men
2006-08-02 06:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to rent a video and then run. He needs to keep his fantacies in place. A threesome is in no way a show of love and leads to a collapse of real trust. Tell him to hire a couple of hookers for it and write you about how it was. Find yourself someone that appreciates just you and will commit to just you-period. Don't think this guy is the only one in the world out there for you. You deserve better and need to expect it. I wish you well.
2006-08-02 06:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont honestly feel good about it, dont do it. My suggestion also is if and when you do have a threesome (you, your boyfriend and someone else) make sure the other person is someone you are not close to otherwise you may lose your boyfriend to her if he likes her more.........Good luck - but just FYI......threesomes are very sexy ; P
2006-08-02 06:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by honeyinthelexus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not comfortable with a threesom, don't do it. It could make things very weird for you and your boyfriend in the future.
He may have suggested it just so he could band another chick and not get in trouble with you.
2006-08-02 06:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by Alan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably just sexually attracted to her. If you dont feel comfortable doing it, then dont. But it is an easy alternative to him tryin to get at her or going off and doing his own thing. If you're friend isnt opposed to the idea then maybe you could just have her do foreplay instead of having sex if thats what makes you feel uncomfortable
2006-08-02 06:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by Homer Pimpson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you gave him the correct altimatum. You're not being a
*****, your giving him what he is giving you. Kinda like, how wierd would it be for him to see his buddy, knowing you squealed when his buddy porked you? Same thing....you'll feel wierd about your friend when you see her because you'll imagine the man you love porking her with his tool he uses to give you love.
2006-08-02 06:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,if you are comfortable in such a deal,of having a threesome,goahead and you are not at all in suggesting what u did?
2006-08-02 06:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋