I don't know what to say?

Question

I'm going to call this guy i really like,and want back...i know for a fact he liked me and i think he still does.he currently just got a girlfriend-i'm pretty sure..i heard oit from one of his friends.I really want him back-hes asked me out 3 times before,but i was scared and said no.I want him back now..i'd like to give us a shot.I just don't know what to say to him.I don't want to sound mean,but i want to make a point

they only got together a couple days ago...theyv'e know eachother a few weeks...hes know me years..I think I love him I always think about him and everything.I think we have something.I still believe he likes me.Is he doind this to make me jealous?A few days ago him and his friends called asking if i still liked him i said yes of course,then they said he thinks i don't like him....i told him thats not true.

i think hes different and would never lie or cheat on me.Hes a nice guy,despite the way he looks or what he says,in the 3 years i've know him,he hasn't lied to me.I've found stuff out that i didn't know,but half of the people i ask say its not true,and the half that say it is like him too.

Answer 1

just tell him that you thought again about you guyz and wanna try to give it a shot .pretty damn straight

Answer 2

Look I dont mean to be mean, but turning him down 3 times and now wanting him to dump his new girlfriend for you, may seem a bit selfish dont you think. If you feel very strongly about him then give him a call and be totally honest with him. Tell him the reason that u turned him down was because you were scared but infact you actually did like him. The ball is then in his court. Good luck

Answer 3

Right now I'm feeling a little embarrassed for you. He asked you out in the past, but now he has a girlfriend. You're too late. You need to wait until he's free again.

If it turns out that he doesn't have a girlfriend, or if she doesn't last, then you can tell him, "I know in the past that you asked me out and I said 'no,' but I'd like to give it a try if you'd give me a chance."

Answer 4

Say exactly what you just told us. Tell him the truth about your feelings! Tell him the reason you turned him down the last three times was simply because you were scared, but now you've finally worked up the courage to give it a shot. Good luck!

Answer 5

If you like him, I think that you should call him and tell him the truth-that you we're too scared to go out with him and aplogize and see what he says. And try not to be scared the next time someone asks you out because you can miss out on a lot of great oportunities.

Answer 6

Call him up and say "Hey, does that offer for coffee/movie/food (or whatever he asked you out for) still stand? I really wanted to say yes when you asked me, but the timing wasn't right. Would you want to go out some time? If not, that's fine, but I'd really like to get to know you better."

Keep it chatty and casual, so you don't sound desperate or like he's your last option.

Good luck!

Answer 7

Sounds like the forbidden fruit story, (wanting something that you can't have). I have a co-worker who is like that about every girl he breaks up with. Are you sure you like this guy or are you interested in him because someone else is? If you can't get him, I think you can get Lil Flip.

Answer 8

short answer, if he has a girlfriend now do not attempt to get back together with him. he may resent you for interfeering with his current relationship.
So be friends with him and his current girl, and if and when they break up then and only then consider getting back with him.
failure to di the above could leave you without him in your life.

Answer 9

I don't wanna sound mean. but all this time went by, now he's gotta girlfriend,now you want him back.I'M SORRY 'you lost your chance leave him be.or just wait if you really like him.give him the space to breathe and see if he likes this girl wait for him do dump her.then make your move.because if he cheats on her with you,how do you kno he won't cheat on you.

Answer 10

Let him know how you feel. Let him make his own desicion from there. If he wants to continue with his current girlfriend, then back off. If he decided to get with you, then good luck. But for sure let him know how you feel about him.

Answer 11

I think you should just let him know that when he is not dating anyone that you'd be interested in going out. Don't pressure him into leaving the other girl. That really wouldn't be fair.