I'm 15 and i have been dating the same girl for two years yet i want to respect her wishes and wait. If you have any comments about breaking up with her keep them to your selves.
2006-08-02 06:31:08 · 89 answers · asked by Cloud Strife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you truely love her and tht is her wish (to stay a virgin) then respect it and be with her, your time will come when your old enough and really understand what sex is all about. and you will then enjoy it alot more. keep up the good work..it is hard i know!!
2006-08-02 06:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by motorcyclelovinmama 3 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Of course respect her wishes! If you have been with her for 2 years and have restrained yourself that long, then I think you should still do that. Definately DO NOT break up with her because of that. I don't know if you're a Christian or not, but I am. Let me tell you, God will bless you tremendously if you do this. And, when you get married, your wife and yourself will feel so much closer to each other knowing that you saved yourselves for each other. What an accomplishment that would be! Take it from someone who has been sexually active ONE time and regrets every second of it. My fiance and I will be getting married In September and we have been together for a year and a half and have not had sex. Our wedding night special! If you go against her wishes and demand sex she will turn against you, or at least not think of you the same. And, if this happens to be the girl you are supposed to spend the rest of your life with, then waiting until your wedding night would make that night that much more special! Hope I could help!
2006-08-02 06:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by clm2675 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'd advise you to respect her wishes because you've obviously decided she's worth it. Today everyone seems to be rushing into sex without no thought of the consequences. Becoming sexually active comes with a lot of responsibilities and precautions. There's nothing wrong with having sex until you're married. A lot of people like to think that variety and gaining experience in sex should be done before marriage. But then again thats probably why we got so many STDs out there particularly the big guy AIDS. Waiting until marriage should heighten the desire and allow passion to burn. Think of all the things you guys can learn together. The newness of it should be an adventure for both of you. I wish you luck with her and hope things go as far as marriage.
2006-08-02 06:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait, BUT... while you're at it, do something positive and DO NOT DWELL on sex or trying to stay a virgin. Just stay busy with other things. Thinking about it makes it more tempting and you've got better things to do than fantasizing about it. This is the time when you can do all you want to get ahead in life. Work hard in school and get done early, don't wait like me until you get in your late 20s to finish college, then you don't have time to get your finances in order before getting married.
And you don't have to wait till you're 30 to get married either. If you're a hard working mature person, early 20s is ok.
And for the person who says that maybe they will invent something that gives you a better orgasm, that something was already invented: It's called purity and trust. You'll be amazed how much better sex is when you can trust (not have to talk yourself into believing that your spouse is trustworthy) your spouse because you KNOW that he/she has a pure heart and by waiting until marriage they have proved that they are strong enough to say no to temptations later if things get tough in marriage.
2006-08-02 07:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd try to stay a virgin till you're 18. You won't be that much wiser now, but you will be held accountable for your actions, which, currently is up to your folks. Don't however, wait till marriage. If you are going to spend the rest of your life with someone, make sure the sex with them is wonderful. So, wait till you're 18, but then make sure to test the waters before you jump in the pool. Sex can wait.
2006-08-02 06:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by largegrasseatingmonster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both love each other and want to wait till marrige thats great. If you want to do it but she wants to wait and your willing to respect that your a great little mannnn!!!!!!!!! I respect you for having the power to respect her. Dont break up with her. In the long run that is the kind of wife you really want. not some girl that has been with everyone and all around. Good luck you are both young and have lots to wait for but I respect you both for fbeing mature
2006-08-02 06:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by Medical Assistant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a good man, by respecting the wishes of the young lady you are dating. You are admirable, wanting to wait until you are married before you take the plunge that will change you forever.
Stay true to yourself, dear one...you are having an excellent start!
2006-08-02 06:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may not want to wait till you're married, but at least wait till you're 17 or 18, young relationships, no matter how long, have a tendency to not work out. just stay on the same page as to how you feel about it and always respect her wishes.
good luck, i'm pullin for ya!
2006-08-02 06:35:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that it is difficult but, I think that you should wait, only out of respect, though. Let her know that you would like to "do it", with her, but want to wait until BOTH of you are ready.
By the way, thank you for your comment, "if you have any comments about breaking up with her, keep them to yourselves."
2006-08-02 06:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by Colleen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Chivalry says, "If there are things you want to do intimately, then wait until after you're married.If you wait, it will truly show her that you respect her, and I bet she'll be more than willing to do anything intimate for you. Continue to love her, respect her, and if you have problems, initiate conversation and work them out. Never go to bed angry. Always kiss and make up. Trust me, you will have a blissful relationship/marriage if you keep this up."
Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
2006-08-02 09:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you should wait. If you love here and respect her as you say you will wait. You viginaty is something special and sacred to most and only want to give it to someone you truley trust and love and know that you will be there for them as they will be there for you . If in the future you do decide to do it . Please use protection read a little and maybe even talk to your parents . I dont know if your parents are open to discuse these things but i am sure glad my dauther came to me for advice than her friends.
2006-08-02 06:35:20 · answer #11 · answered by mary_llinas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋