My ex-boyfriend became a good friend of mine. I enjoy his company. Does he feel the same or is he yearing for sex?
2006-08-02 06:30:05 · 6 answers · asked by Janice T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am going through a similar situation right now. My ex-boyfriend (from like 4 years ago) asked me to come over to hang out and we became good friends again, but then last weekend we did some sexual things so I have my doubts about our friendship now.
I would say it depends on how long you have been broken up for.
He either misses you or really does jsut want to be friends...or he is just lonely. Try to test him by having girl moments like call him crying because you saw a dead cat on the road...if he tells you that it stupid to cry about it, he's not really your friend, if he comforts you then friendship is all thats on his mind. If he comforts you and tries to take advantage of your weakness by seducing you, well then I think we both know what that means.
2006-08-02 06:39:25 · answer #1 · answered by aerosmithbaby05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is "yearning", let him yearn. Be straight with him and he will get the message. How long will that take? It took me about 8 years. The better that I got to know him, the more I liked him. Do your business and treat him like a friend. Not sharing certain information will hurt him a lot, a trust issue. It hurts more than having someone you care about having "feelings" for others.
IF he feels this way, he'll get over it. If not, don't stress. Either way, treat him as you would any friend.
2006-08-02 06:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by Colleen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the apex in any relationship between man & woman. If you are willing, then nothing can stop him. Its based on mutual consent. Friendship may be for emotional reasons, physical or both. You can simply test him by pretending your approval for a physical relationship, see what are the results.
2006-08-02 06:39:56 · answer #3 · answered by Vicky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the is prolly just a good friend I'm really good friends wit all my ex bf's
2006-08-02 06:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by ann r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope he just wants to be good friends with you!!!!!!
2006-08-02 06:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its definitely for sex
2006-08-02 06:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by zombie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋