Not like beat her a$$ or slap her around BUT ya know.........
2006-08-02 06:27:03 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO!
2006-08-02 06:29:34 · answer #1 · answered by RedCloud_1998 6 · 15⤊ 12⤋
haha, not at all. it's perfectly normal and natural. it's called role-playing. some people get turned on by the contrasting sensations in sexuality/violence. go ahead and express your desires. during sex, start by saying things like "smack that ***" or whatever you think would be more natural for your partner. this may make you uncomfortable, but don't be nervous. you're *******, so it's sort of silly to be embarassed about dirty words.
once you've got him smacking your *** on occasion, you can just sort of grab his hand and tell him you want him to smack you. it's best to initiate this sort of thing DURING the sexual act, because that's when people are all hot and bothered, and they have fewer inhibitions.
it is very very VERY important that after the first couple of times you do this, explain that you don't want to be hurt, and that it's just fun and games. this will be good, because it will improve the communication in your relationship as a whole.
good luck!
2006-08-02 06:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by entropicflux 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all as long as you arent hurt (bruises for example) but slapping rear, a LITTLE roughness is fine. BUT just a little and as long as he knows when to stop before going too far and hurting you. Freakiness can be fun.
2006-08-02 06:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it's the norm for a girl to like it rough sometimes. As far as I'm concerned it should be an everyday occurance. Sweet and sensual has its place and that place is in the neighbors bedroom... Boring!!!
2006-08-02 07:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not weird, just into the master/slave thing....it is more normal than u may realize, most of the girls I have been with enjoy it so some point, a good spanking, and hair pulling is almost always enjoyed and increases your pleasure during sex, and its fun for us too....just dont let it get carried away, in the bedroom it is ok, but not outside of it......
2006-08-02 06:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you describe it, I don't think it's weird. For a lot of women, sometimes tender love-making is just right, and other times raw animal passion is just right.
2006-08-02 06:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by sherrie_66 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, alot of girls I have slept with liek it rough...to be choked and smacked, hair pulled and even spit on...the rougher the better to some. Go for it!!
2006-08-02 06:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's fairly common, and normal. A lot of girls like to heighten the excitement that way, it feels dangerous.
2006-08-02 06:31:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So long as it's what can be called fun rough and tumble and both enjoy it then it's not.
2006-08-02 06:31:47 · answer #9 · answered by xbkw46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a fantasy role play kind of thing it's fine. It heightens your senses.
2006-08-02 06:30:53 · answer #10 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT AT ALL, alot of women can only be satisfied that way which is the best and most fun
2006-08-02 06:30:41 · answer #11 · answered by HOTsxyPROFdoc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋