2006-08-02 06:16:55 · 33 answers · asked by ReN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love!
2006-08-02 06:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Making love is beautiful. It is what I am holding out for. It is the joining of two souls who have nothing but each other's best interest in mind. It is when two people want to fulfill each other's physical needs because their emotional needs have been met. It is the ultimate experience to share with someone that you have also shared your heart with. Having sex can be fun. Two people with an attraction to each other share their bodies with each other. No deep connection needs to exist, just a lust in the moment. Having sex can bring about orgasms just like making love can. I guess the biggest difference would be how you feel from the inside out after the sexual encounter is over. When you have made love to someone, you feel fulfilled. You feel loved and appreciated. Sometimes after having sex your sexual appetite has been satisfied but you still long for more. You feel incomplete. That is why I am celibate now. I have had sex and I have made love and I have come to the conclusion that I want to be loved and made love to. I want someone in my life who respects, honors and uplifts me. The person that makes love to you will do those things. You may or may not hear from the person you have sex with again. You can't depend on them to be there outside of sex.
2006-08-02 06:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always thought that when referring to what you did was having sex or making love is just the preference between the words. although there are still many that believe that when you say that you had sex then it had felt what it was, just plain sex. if you say you made love then it had to have been something you did out of love and nothing else.
these words vary with different people and if you want to know what the person meant with their words you need to first see how the person said the words to know if what they did was something only for pleasure or for love.
good luck on finding the answer you seek!!!
2006-08-02 06:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by Melody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When having sex you are just doin it for the Physical pleasure of it, you are knocking boots, not really caring about your other partners needs or wants....you are just getting some booty.
when making love ..you are connecting with the person in the closest way imaginable. you have eye contact,constantly touching each otheer lovinginly , whisper sweet nothings, entwine your fingers together and are expressing your love for eachother in the most physically and most intimate way possible. its more like a spiritual connection with the person and you get to feel alot of emotions at the same time.
Most people confuse the two of them but they are as differnt as night and day
2006-08-02 06:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by Scorpiogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex you just do it because your in need you got the urge and theres no feelings involved no i love you or anything like that when your having sex making love is for somebody you truely love and care about you give your very best at making them happy telling them how you feel and all make it great for both of you
2006-08-02 06:22:07 · answer #5 · answered by Juan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the people and the mood of the moment. People who are in love can "make love" and "have sex" and some people are just having sex. It also depends if it is a relationship or a one night stand or just casual sex.
2006-08-02 06:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by PiccChick12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i find making love is more special, as its with the person you love.
Having sex is like a one night stand.
IMO.
2006-08-02 06:20:34 · answer #7 · answered by Morritsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When just having sex, you're mostly thinking about yourself and YOU feeling good. When making love you're thinking about the other person as well, its a pleasurable mix of emotion and physical pleasure.
2006-08-02 06:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by Rave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex can be with someone you aren't in love with. Love making is when you love that person with your whole heart.
2006-08-02 06:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by Huliganjetta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are just having sex, it isnt from your heart and you have no romantic feelings for the person. When you are making love, you love the person and it is all from your heart.
2006-08-02 06:21:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋