ok so we are young both of ous are 15 but for the past i dont know a couple of months ive been wanting to have sex lik oviouslly w/ someone im w/ and love! but like when im w/ him it just is .....(no words to explain it) i just really want him to be the ONE!!! i have it w/! and i dont know what to do we have never really talked about sex! weve been together for almost 3 months! and the other night he was talking to me about how his friends girlfriends acouple are getting pregnant and 1 couple is getting married! was he telling me something??? What should i do w/ th whole SEX thing???? help! please!!
2006-08-02 06:10:49 · 18 answers · asked by ever_aj_love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you haven't talked about sex, you aren't ready for sex.
If you are afraid to go out and buy condoms from a drugstore, you aren't ready for sex.
And if you aren't ready to deal with the consequences of sex, then you aren't ready for sex.
There are lots of really fun things you can do that don't involve sex. Wait a bit, that's my advice.
2006-08-02 06:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by Brian L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 15, don't rush it. If you really think you are mature enough, ready, and think this guy is the right one, then there is nothing I can really say to you. Just BE SAFE and use protection. I think you should consider going on the pill AND using a condom. Imagine getting pregnant at your age...you're whole life would change.
2006-08-02 06:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. 3 months is nothing in the grander scheme of things. I did it at 14, had a baby at 16, and didn't finish school. I got my GED at 24, and at 31 I JUST got my life together. He left me and then died of a disease. I was scared, but wasn't infected. You just never know a person you know. Wait till you are older, and for god's sake...BE CAREFUL!
2006-08-02 06:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your too young right now, 3 months is kinda fast to be having sex with him, see if the relationship lasts at least a good year or more and if you still feel the same way then be very careful about it, it is a very big decision
2006-08-02 06:18:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I agree your too young to do this yet. Now since I'm a parent and know you probably will anyway, GET PROTECTION! You want to get neither pregnant nor diseases. You could always just masterbate each other instead of intercourse. Use toys, anything but, you really shouldn't do it yet. But IF you do...BE SAFE!
2006-08-02 06:21:41 · answer #5 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sweetheart. he was not telling you something. unfortunately, i understand your desire to hear him talk about the future. and i know no amount of hearing what i amabout to say will change your thinking. i have been where you are. i started dating at 16 and the first handful of guys, thank God i didnt sleep with them, i thought were THE ONE. i was certain. he made me feel wonderful i saw myself with him forever. but i guarantee you everything changes, and so quickly. in 6months time you will look back on this relationship and think, "what did i see in that guy?" and then you will be grateful you didnt give 'it' to him. i promise.
2006-08-02 06:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by ChevyGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 15 no one is the ONE!!!, you have to take time to date different people to see what you really like. If you have any reservations about sex, then you're not ready.
2006-08-02 06:16:12 · answer #7 · answered by say wat? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its true u really r 2 young to do it belive me honey the best thing u could do is wait cause if u don't u will regreat it late trust me cause I am regreating it. and if he's the one then he'll under stand
2006-08-02 06:19:33 · answer #8 · answered by ann r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u think you are grown up but you are not. the ONE will come along, it's not your 15 yr old b/f. everyone goes through the same thing. respect yourself please so society doesn't end up with another pregnant teen.
2006-08-02 06:21:37 · answer #9 · answered by kimmy123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll regret it. wait till you are really really confident. and old. Only do it with someone you want to tie the knot with forever.
2006-08-02 06:16:21 · answer #10 · answered by Dinosaur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋