ok so i'm 14 and i'm going into high school...i like this guy in my grade but i know he doesn't give a second glance at me. our families just went on vacation together and that got us a little closer but his best friend was there so he usually hung out with him? what do i do to get him to notice me more?? oh yeah.....i am a girl!!! lol
2006-08-02 05:58:07 · 20 answers · asked by cheeacho 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find out what kind of movies he enjoys and ask him to go with you to one...
2006-08-02 06:01:56 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....there really isn't anything you SHOULD do to make him notice you more. He is already aware of you and if he was interested at all he would pay more attention to you. Because he is aware of you and still isn't paying attention to you, I would say he just isn't interested. You should never do things deliberately to be noticed by someone. Just be yourself and the people that are interested will notice you. Don't pursue someone that isn't interested in you, it makes you appear to be desperate, and the person you are pursuing won't like it. Best to just carry on and hope to meet someone else that catches your interest that also is interested in you. I've been where you are now and it isn't pleasant....it's not a good feeling, but it goes away....and it's always much better when the feeling is mutual, so when you do meet someone else that is interested in you too, it will be a million times better than if you had someone that only was interested in you a little. Good luck to you sweetie and take care. Hopefully this has been helpful to you. Be aware that this is only my opinion and other people will probably have other opinions.
2006-08-02 13:11:46 · answer #2 · answered by typicalguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was 14 once and from what I remember guys are all over the place at that age. Maybe its best you dont give it so much though to it. Hang out with your friends and party out. but if you really want to make him drool, try changing your style a bit and make yourself noticeable. Like , for instance, say hi to him in school when you see him walk by and try to make conversations with the ones he hangs out. That will get him to notice you. Believe me!
2006-08-02 13:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by SWEETIE:0VANE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
real life story. this happened to me.
I really liked one of my best friends. one day i called her to see if she wanted to go to a movie. we sat together in the back row. (hint the armrests go up) in the begining i made sure i had some body contact (legs touching or 2 arms on the armrest) about 1/3 into the movie i slowly put my hand on my leg but close to hers. hopefully they will do the same slowly move your hand closer until they are touching. lift you hand up above the other persons slowly and if they are interested then they will open there hand and you can slide your hand into theres and intertwine ur fingers.hold hands for the rest of the movie. remember to let the other person accept every movement you make and dont force anything. let it flow.
good luck
god bless +
2006-08-02 13:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by California 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww.. that's cute! haha.. (:
Maybe he's secretly in love with you?
1) try pretending to be doing this on your own then they'll have a chance to ask you to join them.
2) Pretend like you need help. Try the "i'm carrying alot of books & suddenly, all of them slipped off my hands" I'm sure it'll cause a commotion & he'll help u with it..
i don't know what's next but... goodluck.
2006-08-02 13:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by excusememiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can get him to notice you more by popping a conversation or a question. maybe you have something in common? if you have at least three things in common, you may be together soon!
2006-08-02 13:05:39 · answer #6 · answered by rachela_cafagna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just find out if he has a girlfriend if he dosn't try talking to him in time you will get closer then ask him out but first start out with milkshakes
2006-08-02 13:03:25 · answer #7 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer him oral. That always gets a guys attention and breaks the ice.
2006-08-02 13:01:35 · answer #8 · answered by pablo h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha...dont worry child...he has noticed u alright!!...perhaps he is shy too. i say relax and go about your life with the laughter u seem to have in your heart....and see him become comfortable around u...as much as he is around his friend...if u believe in prayer..then pray..if not..well, pray anyway...so he doesnt turn out to be gay or something..lol lol....enjoy your life gal..all the best
2006-08-02 13:04:19 · answer #9 · answered by kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got no business worry about wether or not a guy likes you yet,worry about getting your self confidence up and then all you'll have to worry about is keeping all the guys away from you.
2006-08-02 13:03:23 · answer #10 · answered by bearbrown_51 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋