how do you get ur self out of a situation taht u realize as you try to get out you keep digging deeper into?

Question

me and my friend try to get back at onof my exes and she was getting back at her boyrfirend for cheating and we devised a plan and as go along each day we regret what we did before so everday we try to fix it we realize the next day we made it worse and all of eth problems fall on my friend ...what shoudl we do and how do we get out wihtout be figured out and hurt in teh end and how can we get out in an indescreet secretive slick kinf of way

Answer 1

well you could star by hitting the check spelling button, after that, grow up and learn you don't always get what you want. So why reduce who you are by wasting time trying to get back at somebody?

Answer 2

Well revenge is not a good thing. Everything anyone does that is bad or hurts someone else will come back to them. As far as cheaters it will come back to them when they find that one person that they really love they will in turn become the ones that get cheated on. When you get in this kind of situation the best thing to do is forget it and move on that is the hardest thing for an ex to see. As long as you are playing the game of jealousy then the ex's will see that you still care.

My advice would be to just end it. If anyone thinks or says anything then tell them you just had second thoughts about the situation and are tired of all the games. Keep in mind that this is your life and you have the right to change your mind. Another thing that might work whatever the payback idea was just try to do good because now all that is happening is the bad is coming back to you and your Friend.
Good Luck

Answer 3

well, my opinion is that you first do not do anything to anyone that you would not like done to yourself. We all make mistakes but if we all got paid back for what we did, we would all be in a worse mess than what we are in. You need to tell the truth! There is no good way out. You have to be grownup about this and explain your fault in what you did and do not do it again. If you keep on lying, it will get worse and worse and worse, trust me. Look at the situation. You already said that it has esculated to get worse and worse. It will not stop until you tell the truth. You need to straighten up your reputation as a liar. Respectfully speaking, that is.

Answer 4

One thing about life is that the truth always catch up on you no matter how smart you think you are. The sad thing is that it hurts more in the end than if we had being honest at the beginning. Stop what you are doing and just be honest with the person. Ask for forgiveness and move on.

Answer 5

oh sis...its the natural consequence of using lies and halftruths to "fix" relationship problems. the way to fix it is to be honest enuff to confront your exes when they hurt u...and not to "devise plans"...confront the guys..when they admit hurting u...decide whether to continue with them or to go another way. dont "play games"...u only end up in the situations u find yourself in...all the best dear.

Answer 6

if you really try to keep yourself safe from a bad situation..you just keep prayin to god n thinkin 'bout the way to get rid of it...all i can say is...gradually turn every part of the situation into other thing..best of luck...ma friend!!!

Answer 7

You're sunk, but the truth will set you free.

Answer 8

being honest with everyone you did this too........just come out in the open and tell everyone the truth............... that way ya'll can get on with your lives and not have worry about trying to get out of it anymore............if they dislike you oh well......life is too short...........

Answer 9

go 2 church duhhhhhhhhhhhh...pray,read da bible...i do alot of bad things but wen i read the bible things turn out great

Answer 10

just stop don go any further with it, start something else