how can i get her to backoff from my boyfriend?

Question

Yesterday i went to visit my boyfriend at the hospital he works at. Then as I was leaving a nurse he works with told me that she will keep pursuing him once i leave for school this fall. My boyfriend is in his last year of medical school and in a couple months he will start his residency. I know once he starts he will be spending more time with her. And since I go to college 3 hours away, i wont be able to keep her away from him. How can i get her to backoff?

Answer 1

i wouldnt worry about it too much until something actually happens....talk to him and tell you to trust him, and if it gets out of control, then dump him and go and tell her

Answer 2

You can't. She is going to do just as she has said. What you can do is talk to your boyfriend about it. Talk to him about what he's going to do if she keeps pursing him. Let him know that it makes you uncomfortable knowing that you will be so far away. If she is going to back off, it will have to come from him. If he is careful to never encourage her, that may be enough, but he may need to tell her to leave him alone. You will know more of what to expect after talking to him. Basically it all comes down to your being able to trust him.

Answer 3

gurl, u need to tell her to her face, that she is a piece of sh**. and that if she don't take her skanky a$$ somewhere else and leave ur man alone, that u will take it outside and give her a beat down. ( when u say it, get right up in her face)

Answer 4

Your so-called BF obviously likes the attention or he would have put a stop to it himself... He's not worth the effort and there's little you can do... except find someone who appreciates you...

Answer 5

Slider her across the concrete, Whoop her *** then trust him to make the right choices

Answer 6

tell her one touch and you will do some face work on her