We've been going out for about a month and a half, so we've already learned most of each other's interests and hobbies. What do I talk about now? I mean, sometimes I feel like she's bored with me because I don't know what to say, and sometimes I can tell she's trying to think of something to say, but she can't either. Help!!!
2006-08-02 05:39:48 · 14 answers · asked by man_with_eyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get married. Its the conversation thats the definitive ice breaker. That way everytime there's a pause in the conversation, you can say "hey, remember the time we got married??? That was great."
2006-08-02 05:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by noise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try planning some new activities for both of u to do... get tickets for a show, dress up... or take her to a new restaurant, bar, or lounge.... take her to an amusment park or mini-golf.... if u do things together, and it's not "natural" anymore, perhaps there's just no chemistry. i've found that i can talk about anything or everything or nothing w/ my guy and still be happy, not awkward or bored...sometimes when there's just silence but it's not weird, that's when u know that person is there for u no matter what, even if ur not "entertaining" her all the time.
2006-08-02 12:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of talking about your interests and hobbies, start doing them together, so at the end of the day you have something to talk about.
2006-08-02 12:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that a month and a half is enough time to learn what makes your partner tick. Give it some more time. I'm sure there will be some questions that will arise. Don't be afraid to ask.
2006-08-02 12:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. usually you dont have to try that hard in a relationship, topics to talk about should just come up. and if theres nothing to talk about it shouldnt be akward and you should just enjoy each others company. sounds like theres too much effort being put forth, its usually not necessary in a relationship with the right person. sorry
2006-08-02 12:45:34 · answer #5 · answered by pOpTarT484 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep a list when you are not together, but don't let her see it!
Also, don't try too hard. Sometimes it is good just to sit without talking and read each other's body language.
2006-08-02 12:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by isellpc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about your day.If you wont her in your life, talk about the people in your life (like mom, dad, brothers etc...) what they doing and how they doing she just might be going though the same thing or you both can help out each other.
2006-08-02 12:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by Tcandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about stupid stuff. Have fun with your conversations.Take jabs at one another. Keep it funny. If you guys are really feeling each other, then topics should come naturally. Talk about whatever comes to mind.
2006-08-02 12:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about anything. If you two have chemistry this stuff should come naturally.(talk about stuff that makes you both laugh the conversation will flow from there.)
2006-08-02 12:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by Gurly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start going out to places. When you go out to places you tend to have more things to talk about because your out seeing alot of things.
2006-08-02 12:45:03 · answer #10 · answered by steph_pete1329 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋