i mean seriously i had a few girlfriends and like everybody my age does so is it worth it!
2006-08-02 05:38:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, im thirteen, and im telling you now... you're probably not inlove with all these girls. But thirteen isn't too young to be inlove. Just take a break and when the right person comes around, follow your instincts.
2006-08-02 05:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by OnARoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm....not to sound like an old person, but "If all of your friends jumped off of a cliff, would you, too?" Relationships are difficult for Adults to manage, and I am not saying that because I think that you aren't smart, but because they require alot of attention and commitment, and at thirteen, you already have alot on your plate with school. You need to devote your time to your schoolwork and to other interests like sports and other extracirricular activities. Many times when people get romantically involved with people way before they should, life changing events happen before someone is ready for them, and usually someone in the relationship gets hurt. There are many things to consider, your firends maight feel like you don't want to hang with them anymore because you are in a relationship, your schoolwork can suffer, there is always the pressure of premarital sex hanging over your head, and along with that comes diseases (someof which can kill you) and pregnancy. These are all very real consequences that even Adults cannot handle effeciently (divorce is an example). Just focus on making yourself the best person that you can for right now, get through school and College, then get a career. Then, you will have ALOT to offer someone special and the best start that you could get on a marraige. Good Luck!
2006-08-02 12:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love who you love, when you love. Its not like you have
a lot of control over it.
However, what you DO about it is very important. You are
far too young to be considering sex - you would be unable
to deal with the possible consequences (pregnancy, disease,
broken homes, etc).
Moreover, you have a number of challenges as a teenager
which you'll need to deal with - the biggest of which is
actually figuring out what you want and how to read
what other people want.
So - if you want to ask a girl out for a date, and she accepts,
great! Go do something FUN (not sexy). Go get to know
her better and learn how to talk to her.
Go find out that girls and boys don't communicate in the same
way. If you don't know that, you need to learn it.
Later on, as more pieces start to come into play, then
you'll be much better prepared for the consequences.
2006-08-02 12:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's worth it! At your age you are learning what relationships need to grow. Everyone goes through their first relationships learning what it really takes, so you should take them seriously, as you would friendships. Just don't get so involved that you forget to have fun! That way you can look back fondly on all the people that help you get to adulthood and know each one taught you something!
2006-08-02 12:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by str8tequila80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a young year, but that doesn't mean it's wrong. I actually fell in love with someone when I was 13. It's crazy, but feelings are feelings. When you find the right person, don't let them go!
2006-08-02 12:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're talking about having a girlfriend and falling in love, it's not too young because love happens when it does. There's no age limit or whatever to it. But if you're talking about sex-love, yes you are way too young!!!
2006-08-02 12:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont need to be a ceratain age to be in love, 13 is a good age to be in love but u still need to try new things get a feel for what and who u like
2006-08-02 12:45:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13 there are so many more fun things to do than worry about girls. Dude, there is plenty of time for that. Enjoy yourself. Who cares if everyone else is doing it.
2006-08-02 12:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by ABN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true love, yes too young, puppy love, no not really. Do the group dating though, it helps keep you out of trouble and I know my parents let me do more in a group then they would have it we'd been alone.
2006-08-02 12:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by isellpc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thirteen is not to young for love. Just remember that it is puppy love and not the "knock the wind out of you" love you'll feel when you meet the love of your life. (when you are older.)
2006-08-02 12:44:10 · answer #10 · answered by Nicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋