i broke up with my boyfriend because we bearly see each other, i go out with my friends a lot cos he cant see me, now he wants a night on the town with the lads with out me, he keeps throwing at me you always go out with out me, but i have to cos he works so much and can not see me, hes picking a night to go out that has always been our night in togeher
2006-08-02 05:02:09 · 10 answers · asked by Pinkywinky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get busy with your own life time will change everything, even the loser.
2006-08-02 05:05:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'll probably get flamed here, but I can understand his point of view. He works hard, is it really so unreasonable that once in a while he wants a night out with his mates? If it was the other way around how would you feel if you never got a night out with your friends? Life needs to be balanced and one person can't supply you with all that you need.
Can you tolerate the amount that he works and is there any way that his hours will change in the foreseeable future? If not, then splitting up with him may be the only solution.
I hope you manage to work it out, but if not then give it time and you really will start to feel better. Good luck.
2006-08-02 06:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by pomme_blanche_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all take care of you! Get a facial, manicure, haircut a new outfit--anything! If you can't afford to go somewhere and do these things buy a few products and do it yourself at home. THEN get out of the house! Go do something fun that you enjoy whether its with your friends or by yourself. It will get easier with time. Just keep telling yourself that you are worth more than that. Someone will appreciate you for you and they'll want to spend time with you and won't put you through such heartache all the time. Plenty of guys out there for you to choose!
2006-08-02 05:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by K's Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the button that is on the side that says report abure how I wish you could press it and get a good answer.
The guy isn't wanting a stable relationship. Go out as usual do your own thing and give him the chance to ask you out, but it wont be till he's got no pals to go out with. Then you will be in another good relationship and you can say NO thanks gotta boy friend.
It'll hurt for a while but keep going, keep doing, and the pain goes awy.
2006-08-02 05:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be thanking his lucky stars that you left him. Thats one of the most selfish things I've ever heard.
I left him cause he did the same thing I do. Apparently he's working more than you are. Has a limited amount of time to himself and says yea, I'm going to take a night out with the boys. So you leave him.
Wallow in the bed of your own making girl.
2006-08-02 05:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new one is the best way to forget the old one, new adventure is the best remedy for the hurt. know yourself before you know someone else. find the things you are good at and do it well, make it your hobby, and you will find you are winner when you feel down. you can sail with my for example. haha.
2006-08-02 05:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right you'll need an empty washing up liquid bottle, two straws and some sticky back plastic.
2006-08-02 05:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by Rockhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my dear, there is really nothing you can do. But always remember "only time can mend a brokenheart". Good luck.
2006-08-02 05:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time It is the only thing. As has been said, he sounds a very selfish person.
2006-08-02 05:17:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find new one & try
nothin mend ur heart but new friend
try me if u wanna
IM me
2006-08-02 05:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by hrh_medo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋