wat should i do with my skin color .. its black...no girls looks at me?

Question

i am 18n indian.plz help
they just dont bother 2 look at me. n beoz of my color i also look ugly

Answer 1

Except for good hygene and a clean appearance, stop focusing on how you look. Girls, far more than guys, can get past appearance and will like even the "ugliest" guy if they get to know him and he's a good person--worth knowing. And your color is your color. Why even try to change it? You don't really want to attract the kind of girl who's caught up in skin color, do you?

Focus your attention instead on being a person worth knowing--kind, generous, friendly, considerate, trustworthy, optimistic, hard-working, etc.

Smile, be friendly, introduce yourself, and then work hard to remember the names of people you meet. If someone tells you about something they are struggling with, remember later to ask about how it is going for that person.

If you take the attention off of yourself and your worries and put it onto other people and their concerns, you will be a very attractive person indeed.

Answer 2

You sound like you have very very low self esteem. Dont' hate your skin color. Thats a million times worse than anyone else hating you for your skin color. Its not that important. Just a color. As for girls looking at you and you being ugly, why don't you try acting more confident. My best guy friend is seriously hideous, to me (haha)..but he ALWAYS has a girlfriend/dates because he ACTS like he deserves them. You have to walk around thinking that you are great to get girls to notice you. Sitting in a dark corner isn't going to help. Get out there. Enjoy life. Stop worrying about your looks, put on some nice clothes and HAVE FUN!!!

Answer 3

There is not much you can do to make your skin fairer. Sometimes, females do have a feelings towards dark skin man. The only things that matter is stop using any oilment and stay off the sun too long, just take a goat's milk shower daily. It doesn't turn your skin to perfection white but just to shade off some darkness. And one thing, always be confident man, shape your body, put some fragrance, then it solves your problem.

Answer 4

The first and most important thing that you can do is to QUIT blaming your problem on your skin color and become a man that women want!

It's NEVER about skin color except for the mentally weak! You don't want them anyway.

Become a man of confidence, direction, self-determination and class.

There is no other way!

Answer 5

come on, I am sure there are plenty of women that would love to bury your love toy deep inside of them anytime. If your so worried about it then wear clothes that bring out the flavor of your skin color. Darker colors will brighten things up

Answer 6

Black skin is beautiful. Maybe your problem is that you are just ugly. Ugly people come in all races, just like good looking comes in all races. Seriously though try to love yourself.

Answer 7

I don't think you can do anything about your skin color. You need to get some self confidence. Just take good care of yourself, stay in shape, keep yourself clean, groom yourself well, use your personality to attract girls.

Answer 8

I'm sure the girls dont look because your ugly. Dark skinned folk get plenty of attention...

Answer 9

wear bright colors, change your style of dressing, and wear a very good smelling spray. but you got to be confindent at all times. If you dress nice and act like you got common sense and can talk to a girl....you can get just about anyone

Answer 10

Get out of here. I have an Indian friend that is a hottie. You just gotta dress good, smell good, and have confidence. The women will respond to that.